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30 essential self help books

By Richard Davies

Books designed to improve one's self have been around for centuries and the genre, as we know it, began to take shape in the middle of the 19th century with a book aptly called "self-help" by a wonderfully named man called Samuel Smiles.

This list reflects books that have saved lives, sold millions of copies, spawned publishing empires, influenced work habits and has inspired presidents and prime ministers. We approached the subject from a variety of angles ranging from allegories to straight fiction to ensure diversity in our recommendations. Mind, body and health, family and relationships, work, money and finance, and lifestyle are all covered...

The No.1 choice on this list - Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book - was an easy selection. This historic book has saved thousands of lives of men and women around the world. The AA's 12 steps, outlined in the Big Book, have influenced countless other programs to beat addiction. Many books claim that they will change lives but the Big Book has done it time and again.

The Last Lecture

By Randy Pausch

A powerful, beautiful book written by a professor of computer science with months to live. Based on his final lecture, Pausch provides inspiration to achieve childhood dreams.

Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book

By Bill Wilson and Bob Smith

Because it has saved thousands of lives since being published in 1939. This is where the 12-step guide to treating addiction comes from. Pray you never need it.

Man's Search for Meaning

By Victor Frankl

Published in 1946, this book details Frankl's experiences as a prisoner in Auschwitz. He argues for spiritual survival by choosing how you cope with suffering.

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

By Stephen R. Covey

AbeBooks' bestselling used book of all time. Covey offers seven simple rules for your business and personal life.

The Alchemist

By Paulo Coelho

A young shepherd travels to Egypt to find treasure after having a dream. A book about finding your destiny.

How to Win Friends & Influence People

By Dale Carnegie

Where are we without friends? Published in 1936, Carnegie began as a public speaking teacher which influenced his writing.

Jonathan Livingston Seagull

By Richard Bach

A very 1970s novella about a bird who targets self perfection by pushing himself to new limits. Inspired countless baby boomers.

Think and Grow Rich

By Napoleon Hill

Published in 1937, Hill, who was an advisor to two US presidents, always said this book was more than just about income.

The Road Less Traveled

By M Scott Peck

Scott Peck was a psychiatrist. Published in 1978, this book covers four sections - delaying gratification, acceptance of responsibility, dedication to truth and balancing conflicts.

Pushing to the Front Or Success Under Difficulties

By Orison Swett Marden

Scott Peck was a psychiatrist. Published in 1978, this book covers four sections - delaying gratification, acceptance of responsibility, dedication to truth and balancing conflicts.

Self-Help

By Samuel Smiles

Published in 1859, this book launched the genre. Smiles writes how poverty can be tackled by breaking irresponsible habits. Are his Victorian values still relevant?

The 4-Hour Workweek

By Timothy Ferriss

Only published in 2007, this book makes our list because it advises on managing technology and using technology to your advantage. Ignore those emails and carry on reading.

The Celestine Prophecy

By James Redfield

Hippy dippy but influential. The narrator takes a journey to understand nine spiritual insights in an ancient manuscript. Mixes ancient and New Age spirituality.

The Science of Getting Rich

By Wallace D. Wattles

Published in 1910, this book has 17 short chapters, each with an easy-to-understand message. Wattles argues creation is the key to being rich. Inspired Rhonda Byrne's The Secret.

The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark

By Carl Sagan

This is a science book where Sagan explains scientific methods to laypeople. He encourages critical consideration of ideas - ie. a guide to spotting life's misleading nonsense.

Who Moved My Cheese?

By Spencer Johnson

All about dealing with change in your work and personal life. Immediately became a bestseller in 1998 but remains relevant in a rapidly changing world.

The Purpose Driven Life

By Rick Warren

A Christian devotional book offering a 40-day journey and borrowing many learnings from the Bible. Read a chapter a day.

On Bullshit

By Harry G. Frankfurt

Not truly self help but included because our modern world is full of BS. An explanation between lying and BS-ing, and a book that makes liars easier to identify and understand.

The Anatomy of Melancholy

By Robert Burton

Folks have been feeling sad for centuries. This 1621 book is supposed to be a textbook but in reality is a memoir on sadness. A 17th century perspective on depression.

The Power of Positive Thinking

By Norman Vincent Peale

Written in 1952, Peale argues an optimistic attitude can get you a long way in life. His message of positive thinking has been ripped off many times by other authors.

Codependent No More

By Melody Beattie

Modern era self help. The subtitle says it all 'How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself'. Codependency is enabling another person's problems such as alcoholism.

Chicken Soup for the Soul

By Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen

Basically, a motivational book that gets you fired up by recounting true stories from ordinary people. Chicken Soup is now a vast publishing empire.

The 48 Laws of Power

By Robert Greene

Oddly popular with rappers and prison inmates. Using historical examples, Greene offers a series of laws for being powerful.

The Art of War

By Sun Zsu

Yes, this is a guide to fighting battles but its strategy and tactics can be applied to many areas of life from sports to business.

The Magic of Thinking Big

By David Schwartz

This 1959 book instructs in setting high goals and thinking positively to reach them. Lots of guidance on thought patterns.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance

By Robert M. Pirsig

Published in 1974, this is an analysis of 'quality'. Might change how you look at life rather than how you act.

"Thinking, Fast and Slow"

By Daniel Kahneman

A modern book from 2011 but it tackles the age-old problem of whether to be fast and instinctive, or slower and deliberate.

Siddhartha

By Hermann Hesse

This 1922 novel is a spiritual journey of self-discovery. The lesson it offers is that enlightenment comes from the total experience of life and not from individual events.

Tribes: We Need You to Lead Us

By Seth Godin

In 2008, Godin wrote it was our nature to join tribes, and the Internet made it easy. He offers tips on tribe building - desire to change, the ability to connect and a willingness to lead.

I'm OK - You're OK

By Thomas Anthony Harris

A 1969 guide to transactional analysis, a type of psychoanalytics, as a way to solve life's problems.

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