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Paperback or Softback. Condition: New. Some Pages I Will Not Release: An Autofiction. Book.
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Published by ETR Publishing, 2026
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Published by Etr Publishing, 2026
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. You were never too much. You were always in the wrong room. You've spent years adjusting. Simplifying what you say. Slowing down how you think. Editing yourself in meetings, in relationships, in conversations that should have been easy but never quite were. You learned to call it overthinkin…g. Other people called it sensitivity. Neither word ever felt right, because neither one was the whole truth. And no amount of trying to stop overthinking, manage your anxiety, or push through the self-doubt ever quite worked, because none of those things addressed the real problem. By the time you finish this book, you will: Stop interpreting your struggles as weakness or failure, and start making decisions from a place of genuine self-understandingDirect your energy toward building a life that actually fits, instead of fighting environments and situations that were never designed for youNavigate your daily life with greater ease, because you will finally understand the patterns driving your behaviour, your emotions, and your exhaustionBuild relationships and choose work that align with who you actually are, rather than who you have been trying to beWake up with a fundamentally different relationship with yourself, where the question is no longer "what is wrong with me?" but "what do I need?" and you will know how to answer itDifferent on Purpose gives you the whole truth. And more importantly, it gives you a way forward. Drawing on nearly three decades of clinical experience, psychologist Olivia E. Barrett M.Sc. introduces the concept of Mismatch Load: the invisible cost of operating with a high IQ, deep emotional intelligence, or both, at a higher cognitive or emotional resolution than the environments around you were designed for. It isn't a flaw. It isn't a diagnosis. It is a structural reality, and once you see it clearly, everything else begins to make sense. For many people, that clarity brings profound anxiety relief.If you've received an ADHD diagnosis, or suspect you might, this book will show you why your experience goes beyond what that label explains, and give you a framework that finally accounts for all of it. What this book covers: What intelligence actually is, and why the standard definition has been working against you. You'll discover the two engines of intelligence, how they interact, and why their combination creates both your greatest strengths and your most persistent friction. The Mismatch problem, a clear explanation of why you so often feel structurally out of place in environments that weren't designed for the way you think and feel, and why trying harder has never fixed it. 15 recurring signs of high-resolution processing, across three dimensions: cognitive (how your mind processes information), emotional (how you experience and respond to feeling), and integrative (system-level costs that accumulate when both are at work). You will recognise yourself in these signs as a map of how you actually function, and a foundation to boost your self-confidence and overcome self-doubt. The four intelligence configurations, two forms of intelligence, four distinct ways of living them. Understanding which configuration fits you reveals why certain environments have always felt wrong, and what to look for instead. This is not a book about celebrating your differences. It is a book about finally understanding them, with the clinical precision and human honesty that most self-help never offers. If you are ready to stop adjusting and start thriving, this is where it begins. This item is printed Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. You were never too much. You were always in the wrong room. You've spent years adjusting. Simplifying what you say. Slowing down how you think. Editing yourself in meetings, in relationships, in conversations that should have been easy but never quite were. You learned to call it overthinkin…g. Other people called it sensitivity. Neither word ever felt right, because neither one was the whole truth. And no amount of trying to stop overthinking, manage your anxiety, or push through the self-doubt ever quite worked, because none of those things addressed the real problem. By the time you finish this book, you will: Stop interpreting your struggles as weakness or failure, and start making decisions from a place of genuine self-understandingDirect your energy toward building a life that actually fits, instead of fighting environments and situations that were never designed for youNavigate your daily life with greater ease, because you will finally understand the patterns driving your behaviour, your emotions, and your exhaustionBuild relationships and choose work that align with who you actually are, rather than who you have been trying to beWake up with a fundamentally different relationship with yourself, where the question is no longer "what is wrong with me?" but "what do I need?" and you will know how to answer itDifferent on Purpose gives you the whole truth. And more importantly, it gives you a way forward. Drawing on nearly three decades of clinical experience, psychologist Olivia E. Barrett M.Sc. introduces the concept of Mismatch Load: the invisible cost of operating with a high IQ, deep emotional intelligence, or both, at a higher cognitive or emotional resolution than the environments around you were designed for. It isn't a flaw. It isn't a diagnosis. It is a structural reality, and once you see it clearly, everything else begins to make sense. For many people, that clarity brings profound anxiety relief.If you've received an ADHD diagnosis, or suspect you might, this book will show you why your experience goes beyond what that label explains, and give you a framework that finally accounts for all of it. What this book covers: What intelligence actually is, and why the standard definition has been working against you. You'll discover the two engines of intelligence, how they interact, and why their combination creates both your greatest strengths and your most persistent friction. The Mismatch problem, a clear explanation of why you so often feel structurally out of place in environments that weren't designed for the way you think and feel, and why trying harder has never fixed it. 15 recurring signs of high-resolution processing, across three dimensions: cognitive (how your mind processes information), emotional (how you experience and respond to feeling), and integrative (system-level costs that accumulate when both are at work). You will recognise yourself in these signs as a map of how you actually function, and a foundation to boost your self-confidence and overcome self-doubt. The four intelligence configurations, two forms of intelligence, four distinct ways of living them. Understanding which configuration fits you reveals why certain environments have always felt wrong, and what to look for instead. This is not a book about celebrating your differences. It is a book about finally understanding them, with the clinical precision and human honesty that most self-help never offers. If you are ready to stop adjusting and start thriving, this is where it begins. This ite Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. A woman enters a garden where time has stopped. The light never changes. The fountain at the center runs always. The topiary shapes at the edges of her vision turn, slowly, toward her. She carries the pages of her life. At the garden's edge, a channel moves without pausing. It takes everythi…ng released into it, permanently, without remainder. She has come to let go of what she is carrying. She is not yet sure she can. Some Pages I Will Not Release is a work of literary psychological fiction and autofiction, moving between worlds both real and imagined, between the suspended logic of an interior landscape and the full weight of a life lived in cities, in rooms, in the body. A book about memory, desire, and the long work of becoming someone who can begin again. About what we owe ourselves, and what it costs to find out. For readers of literary psychological fiction and autofiction. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.
Language: English
Published by Etr Publishing, 2026
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. You want closeness. And the moment it arrives, something in you pulls away.You push people away and then panic when they go. You find relationships that feel calm and leave them for ones that feel electric, even when electric means painful. You want to trust, but trust has never felt safe. Y…ou have read about attachment styles, taken the quizzes, recognized yourself in the description, and you still cannot stop repeating the patterns.You have not failed the work. The work has not yet reached the right level.By the time you finish this book, you will: Understand why disorganized attachment is not a flaw or a diagnosis, but a survival response your nervous system built when love and fear arrived togetherRecognize your specific triggers before they pull you into collapse or chaos, so you can intervene earlier and with more precisionUse grounding and regulation tools designed for the particular intensity of disorganized responses, not generic anxiety techniques that were never built for thisBegin to feel safer in your own body, which is the foundation everything else depends onMove toward relationships with more steadiness, not because you have erased the past, but because you have learned to work with itThe Disorganized Attachment First Aid Kit is not a complete therapeutic journey. It is what the title says: first aid.A clinical stabilization guide for the moments when your system is overwhelmed and you need tools that actually match the intensity of what you are experiencing. Drawing on nearly three decades of clinical work with trauma and attachment, psychologist and psychotherapist Olivia E. Barrett M.Sc. built this book around one core insight: disorganized attachment is a nervous system pattern, not a personality defect. And that means the entry point is not insight alone. It is regulation first, then understanding, then change.What this book covers: The neuroscience of disorganized attachment. A clear explanation of what happens in the brain and body when love and threat become fused in early life, and why this creates the approach-avoidance conflict that confuses you and the people who care about you.The First Aid Framework. A structured, step-by-step stabilization sequence to use when you are triggered, flooded, or dissociating, designed to bring your nervous system back into a window where healing is possible.Body-based regulation tools. Somatic techniques calibrated for the specific shutdown and hyperactivation states that characterize disorganized responses, because thinking your way through this will never be enough on its own.Relational repair basics. How to begin building safety with others without requiring yourself to be fully healed first, and how to communicate your needs during a nervous system crisis.The bridge to deeper work. How to use what this book gives you as preparation for longer-term therapy, including what to look for in a trauma-informed clinician and how to make the most of that work when you find it.Stabilization is not the end of the road. But you cannot begin the road without it.This is your first step. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.
Language: English
Published by Etr Publishing, 2026
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. Your past did not stay in the past when you grew up. It came with you, into your relationships, your body, and your nervous system.You understand your patterns. You still cannot stop repeating them. You know the language: attachment styles, trauma bonds, nervous system dysregulation, and yet… the same dynamics keep surfacing. You end up in the same relational cycles. You react in ways that confuse even you. You feel things at an intensity that does not match the moment.You have tried insight. You have tried awareness. Not because you lack intelligence or commitment, but because insight alone does not reach the part of you that was shaped before you had words. Healing developmental trauma requires more than understanding it.By the time you finish this book, you will: Understand how secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment patterns form and how they quietly govern your relationships as an adultRecognize the power of attachment in shaping your nervous system's definition of safety, love, and threatIdentify your specific attachment style and how it drives your responses in relationshipsBegin healing your inner child, the part of you still responding to a past that no longer existsWork with the body, not just the mind, to create lasting regulatory changeBuild the internal conditions for earned secure attachment, not as a concept, but as a lived experienceWired for Love or Wired for Pain? was written by a psychotherapist and certified EMDR practitioner with nearly thirty years of clinical experience working with attachment trauma and relational dysregulation. The framework here is not motivational. It is mechanistic, built on what actually drives relational patterns and what actually changes them.What this book covers: Attachment theory and its developmental roots: how the four attachment styles form and how they express in adult relationships, with clinical case studies throughout.The neuroscience of relational dysregulation: why you cannot think your way out of a trauma bond, and what the research says actually works.Toxic relational cycles: the specific patterns that emerge from insecure attachment, including approach-avoidance conflict, emotional hyperactivation, and collapse.Somatic and EMDR-informed tools: practical, evidence-based methods for working with the nervous system directly.The path to earned secure functioning: what it looks like, what it requires, and how to build it from where you are now.This is not a book about self-blame, diagnostic labels, or surface-level coping strategies. It is a clinical, compassionate map of why you got here and a clear route forward.This book is for you if you suspect the roots are old. If you want clinical precision rather than reassurance. If you are ready to work with the actual mechanisms rather than around them.Your nervous system learned what love looks like in a context you did not choose. It can learn something different. This is where that begins. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. A woman enters a garden where time has stopped. The light never changes. The fountain at the center runs always. The topiary shapes at the edges of her vision turn, slowly, toward her. She carries the pages of her life. At the garden's edge, a channel moves without pausing. It takes everythi…ng released into it, permanently, without remainder. She has come to let go of what she is carrying. She is not yet sure she can. Some Pages I Will Not Release is a work of literary psychological fiction and autofiction, moving between worlds both real and imagined, between the suspended logic of an interior landscape and the full weight of a life lived in cities, in rooms, in the body. A book about memory, desire, and the long work of becoming someone who can begin again. About what we owe ourselves, and what it costs to find out. For readers of literary psychological fiction and autofiction. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.
Language: English
Published by Etr Publishing, 2026
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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. You want closeness. And the moment it arrives, something in you pulls away.You push people away and then panic when they go. You find relationships that feel calm and leave them for ones that feel electric, even when electric means painful. You want to trust, but trust has never felt safe. Y…ou have read about attachment styles, taken the quizzes, recognized yourself in the description, and you still cannot stop repeating the patterns.You have not failed the work. The work has not yet reached the right level.By the time you finish this book, you will: Understand why disorganized attachment is not a flaw or a diagnosis, but a survival response your nervous system built when love and fear arrived togetherRecognize your specific triggers before they pull you into collapse or chaos, so you can intervene earlier and with more precisionUse grounding and regulation tools designed for the particular intensity of disorganized responses, not generic anxiety techniques that were never built for thisBegin to feel safer in your own body, which is the foundation everything else depends onMove toward relationships with more steadiness, not because you have erased the past, but because you have learned to work with itThe Disorganized Attachment First Aid Kit is not a complete therapeutic journey. It is what the title says: first aid.A clinical stabilization guide for the moments when your system is overwhelmed and you need tools that actually match the intensity of what you are experiencing. Drawing on nearly three decades of clinical work with trauma and attachment, psychologist and psychotherapist Olivia E. Barrett M.Sc. built this book around one core insight: disorganized attachment is a nervous system pattern, not a personality defect. And that means the entry point is not insight alone. It is regulation first, then understanding, then change.What this book covers: The neuroscience of disorganized attachment. A clear explanation of what happens in the brain and body when love and threat become fused in early life, and why this creates the approach-avoidance conflict that confuses you and the people who care about you.The First Aid Framework. A structured, step-by-step stabilization sequence to use when you are triggered, flooded, or dissociating, designed to bring your nervous system back into a window where healing is possible.Body-based regulation tools. Somatic techniques calibrated for the specific shutdown and hyperactivation states that characterize disorganized responses, because thinking your way through this will never be enough on its own.Relational repair basics. How to begin building safety with others without requiring yourself to be fully healed first, and how to communicate your needs during a nervous system crisis.The bridge to deeper work. How to use what this book gives you as preparation for longer-term therapy, including what to look for in a trauma-informed clinician and how to make the most of that work when you find it.Stabilization is not the end of the road. But you cannot begin the road without it.This is your first step. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.
