ISBN: 9798192536384 - The Regulated Relationship: A Nervous-system Approach to Rebuilding Trust, Reigniting Intimacy, and Repairing Connection in a Distracted World (5 results)

Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. Most couples don't fail because they lack communication skills. They fail because they try to use those skills while their nervous systems are already in fight-or-flight.You've read the scripts. "I feel ___ when you ___, because I need ___." You've underlined the right passages. And you've still watched every technique evaporate the moment your partner's voice sharpened - because a threatened nervous system, not a lack of knowledge, is what's actually running the conversation.The Regulated Relationship introduces the 4S Repair Cycle - Settle, Signal, Share, Sustain - a nervous-system-first framework for repairing conflict, rebuilding trust, and reconnecting in a relationship strained by chronic distraction. You'll learn why "just communicate better" was never enough on its own, how to tell a genuine incompatibility from ordinary dysregulation wearing its disguise, how to rebuild the attentional trust your phone has quietly eroded, and how to turn a single good conversation into a lasting shift instead of a repeat performance.This isn't a book about avoiding conflict. It's a book about becoming the kind of couple who repairs quickly, reliably, and without lasting damage - because a regulated relationship isn't one without rupture. It's one with reliable repair. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…

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Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. Most couples don't fail because they lack communication skills. They fail because they try to use those skills while their nervous systems are already in fight-or-flight.You've read the scripts. "I feel ___ when you ___, because I need ___." You've underlined the right passages. And you've still watched every technique evaporate the moment your partner's voice sharpened - because a threatened nervous system, not a lack of knowledge, is what's actually running the conversation.The Regulated Relationship introduces the 4S Repair Cycle - Settle, Signal, Share, Sustain - a nervous-system-first framework for repairing conflict, rebuilding trust, and reconnecting in a relationship strained by chronic distraction. You'll learn why "just communicate better" was never enough on its own, how to tell a genuine incompatibility from ordinary dysregulation wearing its disguise, how to rebuild the attentional trust your phone has quietly eroded, and how to turn a single good conversation into a lasting shift instead of a repeat performance.This isn't a book about avoiding conflict. It's a book about becoming the kind of couple who repairs quickly, reliably, and without lasting damage - because a regulated relationship isn't one without rupture. It's one with reliable repair. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.…