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Taschenbuch. Condition: Neu. Neuware - What happens when the life you prayed for becomes the place where you slowly begin to disappear When Heaven Was Silent is a deeply honest British-Nigerian memoir about faith, culture, coercive control, motherhood, survival and the long journey back to self-trust.Lucy D. Ola entered love and marriage believing that loyalty, prayer, forgiveness and endurance could hold everything together. But small compromises gradually became silence. Concern became monitoring. Leadership became control. Forgiveness was expected without accountability. And the quiet voice inside her-the one that kept whispering that something was not right-was repeatedly dismissed as overthinking.Set within British-Nigerian and Christian contexts, this powerful memoir explores emotional and financial abuse, coercive control, the misuse of faith, cultural expectations surrounding marriage, the complexity of leaving and the reality of healing after survival.With tenderness and unflinching honesty, Lucy traces her journey from being chosen but not truly safe to reclaiming her voice, boundaries, identity and relationship with God. She confronts the beliefs that taught her to keep the peace by becoming smaller and discovers that choosing herself was not selfish, faithless or a failure.It was survival.This is not a rejection of faith or Nigerian culture. It is an honest examination of what can happen when love, marriage, culture and faith are used to silence a woman rather than protect her.Written for the woman who has questioned her instincts, explained away what hurt her, made herself smaller to preserve a relationship or wondered whether God was present in the silence, When Heaven Was Silent is a story of courage, healing, spiritual restoration and beginning again.Your voice may have become quiet, but that does not mean it disappeared.Perhaps heaven was never absent. Perhaps heaven was working beneath the silence all along.Content note: This memoir contains themes of coercive control, emotional and financial abuse, pregnancy-related violence, birth trauma, isolation and the misuse of faith.…

Paperback. Condition: new. Paperback. What happens when the life you prayed for becomes the place where you slowly begin to disappear?When Heaven Was Silent is a deeply honest British-Nigerian memoir about faith, culture, coercive control, motherhood, survival and the long journey back to self-trust.Lucy D. Ola entered love and marriage believing that loyalty, prayer, forgiveness and endurance could hold everything together. But small compromises gradually became silence. Concern became monitoring. Leadership became control. Forgiveness was expected without accountability. And the quiet voice inside her-the one that kept whispering that something was not right-was repeatedly dismissed as overthinking.Set within British-Nigerian and Christian contexts, this powerful memoir explores emotional and financial abuse, coercive control, the misuse of faith, cultural expectations surrounding marriage, the complexity of leaving and the reality of healing after survival.With tenderness and unflinching honesty, Lucy traces her journey from being chosen but not truly safe to reclaiming her voice, boundaries, identity and relationship with God. She confronts the beliefs that taught her to keep the peace by becoming smaller and discovers that choosing herself was not selfish, faithless or a failure.It was survival.This is not a rejection of faith or Nigerian culture. It is an honest examination of what can happen when love, marriage, culture and faith are used to silence a woman rather than protect her.Written for the woman who has questioned her instincts, explained away what hurt her, made herself smaller to preserve a relationship or wondered whether God was present in the silence, When Heaven Was Silent is a story of courage, healing, spiritual restoration and beginning again.Your voice may have become quiet, but that does not mean it disappeared.Perhaps heaven was never absent. Perhaps heaven was working beneath the silence all along.Content note: This memoir contains themes of coercive control, emotional and financial abuse, pregnancy-related violence, birth trauma, isolation and the misuse of faith. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.…