The Highly Sensitive Man: How Mastering Natural Insticts, Ethics, and Empathy Can Enrich Men's Lives and the Lives of Those Who Love Them - Hardcover

Falkenstein, Tom

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0806539321 ISBN 13: 9780806539324

Publisher: Citadel, 2019

Synopsis

Highly sensitive people think deeply, empathize instinctively, and behave in an ethical way that benefits everyone. Today, with the negative effects of “toxic masculinity” and aggressive behavior in evidence all around us, we need highly sensitive people—especially men—more than ever. Yet for men in particular, being highly sensitive brings distinct challenges, such as gender stereotypes that portray them as too emotional or not “manly” enough.
 
Cognitive behavioral psychotherapist Tom Falkenstein offers the first psychological guide that specifically addresses highly sensitive men and those who care about them, and explores the unique advantages and obstacles they face. Drawing from his training with pioneer in the field Dr. Elaine Aron, and his own groundbreaking work, Falkenstein incorporates the most
up-to-date research on high sensitivity—what it is and isn’t—how it relates to male identity, and provides one-of-a-kind advice and practical tools, including:
 
·                     Self-assessment tests to measure high sensitivity
·                     Strategies to cope with overstimulation and intense emotions
·                     Exercises that enhance relaxation, mindfulness, and acceptance
·                     Advice on self-care and self-compassion
·                     Techniques to deal with situations that highly sensitive people often find difficult
·                     Interviews with men who have learned to live well with high sensitivity
·                     Insights into the key role that highly sensitive men have to play in today’s world
 
 
Including an illuminating conversation with Dr. Aron, The Highly Sensitive Man is an invaluable book that will help redefine masculinity and reveal how high sensitivity can enrich men’s lives, their communities, and the lives of those who love them.

About this title

About the Author

TOM FALKENSTEIN has worked in the mental health sector since 1999 and as a cognitive behavioral psychotherapist since 2006. After obtaining his degree in psychology at the University of Glasgow, he completed his five-year postgraduate training in psychotherapy in Berlin. He then moved back to the UK where he worked as a psychotherapist in London. During this period, he developed a particular interest in high sensitivity and working with highly sensitive people.  He has been training with Dr. Elaine Aron (author of The Highly Sensitive Person) since 2015 and has founded the European Centre for High Sensitivity (www.hsp-eu.com). Currently practicing in Berlin, he also offers consultations for highly sensitive people in both English and German. The Highly Sensitive Man is his first book and was published in Germany by Junfermann in September 2017. It has been translated into a number of other languages.

Review

PRAISE FOR THE HIGHLY SENSITIVE MAN

“Tom Falkenstein’s outstanding book contains a thorough review of all the relevant scientific studies and literature, many innovative and new techniques for the highly sensitive man to cope with overstimulation, fascinating stories by sensitive men and practical tips to increase their self-worth and self-acceptance. This book is a masterpiece that every sensitive man should read.”
—Ted Zeff, Ph.D., author of The Strong Sensitive Boy, The Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guide and The Power of Sensitivity
 
“A book that all highly sensitive people should read!  Carefully and meticulously crafted . . . rooted in the rigorous science of sensory processing sensitivity . . . provides numerous ways we can grow into our own skins as people who experience the world slightly differently.  A powerful and ennobling addition to every highly sensitive person’s library!”
—Tracy Cooper, Ph.D., author of Thrill: The High Sensation of Seeking Highly Sensitive Person

“This book not only shows why highly sensitive men are particularly suffering in the current masculinity crisis, but also why they have exactly the right qualities to turn this crisis into an opportunity. It’s an important book that relieves the pressure of being a highly sensitive man and offers practical tools to the reader. Thank you, Tom Falkenstein.”
—Georg Parlow, author of Highly Sensitive
 
“Tom Falkenstein’s book is characterized by a clear, precise and practical style. It’s a unique and encouraging book for all of those men who want to understand and use their sensitive temperament better”.
—Brigitte Schorr, author of Highly Sensitive in Relationships
 
“High sensitivity is a fascinating and increasingly popular topic. Tom Falkenstein’s book about highly sensitive men is an important addition to this relatively new field. The scientific foundation and the countless practical tips and techniques that this book offers will help men and women to understand their high sensitivity better and to live well with it.”
—Dr. Michael Pluess, Queen Mary University of London
 
“Finally! A professionally grounded and thoroughly researched book specifically for highly sensitive men. The book engages deeply with masculinity and sensitivity and will help to strengthen the self-worth of highly sensitive men who feel insecure. The book powerfully motivates men to accept and use their sensitivity well. It’s an important addition to the empowerment of highly sensitive men.”
—Ulrike Hensel, author of Understanding and Appreciating High Sensitivity
 
“Tom Falkenstein's book stands out among the numerous current publications on high sensitivity. He presents a well-founded and substantiated introduction to the academic literature on the topic, complemented by vivid case studies. In the second part of the book, he makes many useful suggestions on how highly sensitive people can use strategies based on mindfulness, visualization, and self-compassion to increase their well-being. A truly inspiring book – for anyone who identifies as highly sensitive.”
—Prof. Dr. Margrit Schreier, Jacobs University Bremen

"The integrating of the knowledge in this book would allow for a complete cultural sea change around what it is to be a man."   
—Alanis Morissette

About this edition

• Publisher: Citadel
• Publication date: 2019
• ISBN 10: 0806539321
• ISBN 13: 9780806539324
• Binding: Hardcover
• Number of pages: 272