The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers
Language: English
Published by Random House of Canada, 1999
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- Hardcover
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Can open eroticism between more than two consenting adults be considered natural behavior? Is it possible to experience sex with other partners while happily esconsed in an emotionally monogamous marriage? Read on. Black boards, gilt text on spine. Unclipped DJ features details taken from,"The Worship of Venus" by Peter Paul Rubens. 376 pp. plus: Sources, Acknowledgments, Index. Digital pictures available upon request. Bookseller's Inventory # 071058.
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- Title
- The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers
- Author
- Gould, Terry
- Publisher
- Random House of Canada
- Publication year
- 1999
- Condition
- As New
- Dust jacket
- As New
- Binding
- Hardcover
- Language
- English
- ISBN 10
- 0679309527
- ISBN 13
- 9780679309529
- Edition
- First Edition, First Printing
- Printing
- 1st Printing
- Dimensions
- 8vo - over 7¾" - 9¾" tall
- Seller catalogs
- Non-fiction
Ignored, dismissed or denigrated by the mainstream media, ordinary, married couples in the lifestyle are now getting together to openly express their erotic fantasies. Acting within strict rules of etiquette, everyday people -- social workers, physicians, school teachers -- participate in everything from sexual costume parties to multipartner sex as a form of social recreation within marriage.
Is swinging merely an invention of sexually permissive modern times? As Gould discovered, the phenomenon has roots that go back thousands of years. From prehistoric fertility rituals to Dionysian festivals, from the nineteenth-century Onieda commune to the twentieth-century social mirror of films such as Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice and The Ice Storm, spouse sharing has always been a part of human sexual practice.
A deeper biological urge seems to motivate this pleasure-seeking practice, one that combines two paradoxical urges: the drive to seek long term partners for raising offspring and the equally powerful drive for sexual and genetic variety. Lifestyle couples have resolved these conflicting urges.
For the rest of us, including our law enforcement agencies, the lifestyle can appear pornographic when strobe-lit by the camera's flash. But examined in the cool light of the latest research on evolutionary and emotional roots of human sexuality, the practices of lifestylers assume a profound meaning for all. The Lifestyle gives us a controversial and unique understanding of what it means to be part of a fast-growing subculture of consenting, mainstream adults who are changing the rules of sexual behavior for pair-bonded humans. Then again, perhaps they aren't changing anything at all.
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