this is the first guide about the transfer of assets written from the recipient's perspective. it delves, not only into financial, legal, tax, and investment questions, but also into a far more sensitive area-the delicate art and science of communicating and negotiating about money and material goods with loved ones. rottenberg presents and offers solutions to a variety of potential scenarios, offering real-life examples as well as advice from experts. topics include: before death: talking with relatives about death, money, and inheritance; what you should know about their legal rights; the will; testamentary trusts.at death: the role of executors and trustees; accessing the will; what to do with assets; finding advisers; contesting the will on your own: dealing with trustees, lawyers, your fellow beneficiaries; planning your estate.