Insecure Minds Shield Insecurity by Shoemaker Franklin (2 results)

Taschenbuch. Condition: Neu. Neuware - This book began, as many honest books do, in the space between what we expected and what we actually found.When we established Dr. RAD The Attachment Code Breaker in Lakeland, Florida, we anticipated working primarily with individuals struggling with their own emotional pain - people processing loss, grief, anxiety, the lingering effects of difficult childhoods. And we did that work. We still do. But what we did not fully anticipate was how frequently that work would require us to sit with a different kind of client: the person who had been systematically diminished, manipulated, accused, controlled, or emotionally abandoned by someone who, by every outward measure, appeared confident, even formidable.Again and again, we encountered the same disorienting pattern. The person in the chair described a partner, parent, sibling, or colleague who seemed to operate from an invisible wound - someone whose behavior made no rational sense until you understood that everything they did was organized around one terrifying core belief: that they were fundamentally not enough, not lovable, not safe in any relationship. The shield they built around that core belief was elaborate, often sophisticated, and devastating in its effects on the people closest to them.We began to map this pattern with clinical precision. We noted how projection worked as a mechanism for externalizing shame. We traced the way contempt functions as a preemptive strike against anticipated rejection. We documented how surveillance and control are insecurity's attempt to manage a world that feels perpetually threatening. We watched charismatic, high-functioning people devastate their most intimate relationships from behind a polished performance of certainty they did not actually feel.…

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