Eleanor Voss

Eleanor Voss knows intimately the exhausting weight of maternal enmeshment and the quiet agony of seeking approval where there was only coldness. Having walked through the fog of toxic relationships and emotional manipulation, she chose to transform her personal survival into a roadmap for others.

But Eleanor doesn’t believe healing has to be a boring or strictly academic process. Alongside penning the volumes of the bestselling workbook series 'Your Chaos Has a Name'—no-nonsense, practical guides to escaping gaslighting and trauma bonds—she is also the author of sharp, witty comedies about narcissists.

Because the truth is, sometimes to survive certain utterly insane dynamics, you first have to learn to laugh at them.

Through her books, Eleanor doesn't offer distant, clinical theories; she offers a hand extended in the dark and a glass of wine shared with a friend who has seen the exact same things. Her mission is to remind you that you are not losing your mind, that the fault was never yours, and that with the right amount of firm boundaries and self-deprecation, you can finally reclaim your sovereign life.