The author is a common person. The highest compliment that her father in-law ever gave anyone was when he would say: "they are common people." What he meant was that they don't think they are any different than anyone else. They don't put on airs or act aloof and they are often a little shy, but that's okay. So, the author's average life, average education, and above average weight can be quite consoling to her. She has also been comforted by intermittent communication with the spirit world for the past 20 years. Because these mysterious meetings can be confusing, the author has not previously shared her writing. The trepidation that her "truth" may be mistaken by anyone to be their "truth" has caused the author petrifying fear. She hopes that she never sounds preachy because the intent is to share. In her "seeking" this is what she "found". . . for now.