Tammy "Tam" Hodge was born in Southern California in 1970. Having several decades under her belt, she happily admits the 80's were her favorite. So much so her children, ages 20 & 18, can name any 80's tune for you. She married her "supposed to be" in 1991. Well into Tam's 20's, she battled many demons of her past and fought mightily to overcome them. And that is why you are reading her biography here right now. Her battle to victory led to writing her first book about the power of choosing.