Neilse Sadler

I am twin. Born 1963 the last of seven children to Frank Sadler. My Dad was a farmer and a heavy drinker, My Mother was a strict religeuos minded person who suffered abuse seen by us growing up. I became the Adult to attend to My Fathers drunken state and abide by my Mothers values. I became a co-dependant passive minded person who attracted wrong type relationships. I married three times, and three times divorced. Why? Because I had to learn the hard way why my life needed to be remodeled, but there was no-one to be my model. I was alone, trying to fix up all the broken peices in my life. I am now 50 yrs old. My books tell of my life story as i fit it all together with life experience and hardships and counciling that I gained and bit by bit have now been able to live what I call a normal balanced life, by the help I gained by creating a better me. My book "Whats Normal" tells of the broken life from the begining, to the recognition of need for change. My second Book is listed with createspace.com/title/ID4298702 Whats Love and Faith. This book is my 2nd edition that tells how I learned how to Love myself and to recognize good groups of people and not so good choices, and tells how to recognize the difference and make better valued chioces to move beyond the past and into a better future and be who I am to be real without negative people destroying my self esteem. I am currently writing a 3rd edition which will be called, Whats grace and Hope, this book will tell about the grace and hope I have had to accept in the things in life that are not so easy to change and the life of accepting my own IHC Childs illness and making desisions based on Hope that has taken alot of grace to do, lookiing past the blamers and critics and looking deep within my own right of choices, being true to myself.My books are written for Men and Woman who need answers without paying alot of money to councilors who really are only listeners. I am open hearted iin my writing to share from my own life how hard it is when there is no-one else but you who can decide for you. I beleive my desisions have been to never look back and keep moving forward and alsways do what you know is the right thing to do.