White Knuckles & Wishful Thinking: Learning From the Moment of Relapse in Alcoholism and Other Addictions

George Manter Duwors

ISBN 10: 0889372241 / ISBN 13: 9780889372245

Published by Hogrefe & Huber Pub, 2000

May have limited writing in cover pages. Pages are unmarked. ~ ThriftBooks: Read More, Spend Less. Seller Inventory # G0889372241I4N00

Synopsis:

This book aims to explain the moment of relapse, and to provide practical help for counsellors and clients struggling to avoid relapse. The ideas and techniques are compatible with the Alcoholics Anonymous and other 12-Step programmes. DuWors explores the one relentless empirical fact about addictive relapse: at the moment of picking up the first drink/drug we all say one of two things - either "One won't hurt" (or a handful of "wishful" variations) or "Who cares?" (or a smaller, less frequent list of "white knuckle" variations). What does this mean? Why is it that so many different people - different addictions, different stages of the illness, different educational and cultural backgrounds - all say the same thing at this critical moment? After all, this is the very moment that treatment and recovery strive to prevent. And if we could understand it, might we not help more people not have to repeat it? This book comes to the conclusion we have to try and enter the psychic world of the person living it, as well as the perspective of the would-be helper. Like the author, we must sift through psychological and biological theory. But the theories mean nothing if they do not connect with human experience. The book is written for three main groups: (1) professionals and others fighting on the chemical dependency front; (2) trainees seeking to join the fray and their teachers; and (3) clients whose counsellors recommend it. Two specific relapse experiences are the main focus of this approach: (1) exactly how to deal with the actual moment and process of relapse itself; and (2) how the addict looks at himself before and after drinking, and how this "split" plays a key role in perpetuating relapse and blocking recovery. There is one "nuclear" chapter for understanding the "wishful" relapse and another for the "white knuckle" relapse. You will find three chapters on denial, how it functions up to the moment of relapse. You will find three chapters on acceptance - what it is, how it happens, how it prevents relapse. All of the chapters specify tools for talking to self or others about the experience of relapse and how to prevent it from happening again. The relationship between recovery and spirituality is clearly spelled out in terms of the actual relapse experience. The 2nd edition introduces the SPARROW model for coping, for taking the "serenity prayer" down off the wall and putting it to work. Each chapter features study guides for students of chemical dependency and treatment exercises for those struggling with their own relapse.

From the Back Cover: "At Springbrook Northwest we see many patients with a lot of education and a lot of prior treatment. DuWors' focus on the moment of relapse brings home to them that it is the chemical free mind which picks up the first drink. The concept of subliminal craving makes sense to these folks, healing sense." (Lawrence J. Lombard, NCACII, Springbrook Northwest, Newberg, Oregon.)

"At last! An approach to relapse that is simple, experiential, and connected to principles of recovery. I have read and reread this book. And I have run DuWors' observation about the moment of relapse past thousands of patients. All I get is nodding heads and sheepish grins:" (Terry Seaholm, CCDPIII, Lakeside Milam Recovery Centers, Tacoma, WA)

"This is an extraordinarily practical and useful book, the kind that can only be written by a seasoned clinician.." (Lorie Dwinell, MCW,BCD, Author of "After the Tears, Reclaiming the Personal Losses of Childhood.")

George DuWors is one of the first clinicians to connect family of origin issues with relapse behavior. For that I thank him." (Claudia Black, MSW,PhD, Author of "It Will Never Happen to Me" and "Double Duty.")

"There are thousands of reasons why addicts relapse - but George DuWors has identified a common cognitive pathway that they all go through, and in doing so has given the student and practitioner new tools in the efforts to prevent relapse and enhance recovery." (Steve Morris, MA, Director, Addiction Studies Program, Seattle, University, Seattle, WA)

Bibliographic Details

Title: White Knuckles & Wishful Thinking: Learning ...
Publisher: Hogrefe & Huber Pub
Publication Date: 2000
Binding: Paperback
Illustrator: Despretz, Sylvane; Wissusik, Don
Condition: Very Good
Dust Jacket Condition: No Jacket