So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: laying bare and learning to repair our love lives. This item is unavailable.So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: laying bare and learning to repair our love lives

Better sex in ten steps: renowned sex therapist and bestselling author Ian Kerner shares the program he uses to help thousands of couples achieve more intimacy and enjoyment.

Think about the last time you had sex. Who initiated it? When and where did it happen? What was off-limits and why? Did you lose yourself in pleasure and connection, or did you come away feeling disappointed, or even ashamed?

In this book, Kerner shows you how to create a sex life that works for you. He helps you figure out what’s working, what’s not, where you might be missing some elements, and how to construct a sex life that is mutually satisfying. He also discusses many common sexual problems ― such as low desire, issues with climaxing, and erectile unpredictability ― and how to resolve them. Drawing on the latest research and informed by his own experience of overcoming sexual problems, he lays out an easy-to-follow step-by-step process that has transformed the lives of his many clients, and can do the same for you.

Ian Kerner is a licensed US psychotherapist and nationally recognised sexuality counsellor who specialises in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. He is the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and many more books, focusing on healing sexuality and relationships. He is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, and is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (where he also sits on the board); the Society for Sex Therapy and Research; and the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy.