Stop Chasing, Start Choosing (Paperback)
Robert M. Muncy
Sold by Grand Eagle Retail, Bensenville, IL, U.S.A.
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Add to basketSold by Grand Eagle Retail, Bensenville, IL, U.S.A.
AbeBooks Seller since 12 October 2005
Condition: New
Quantity: 1 available
Add to basketPaperback. When was the last time you felt like you were giving everything and getting almost nothing back? You stay, you explain, you forgive, you shrink yourself, yet the people you care about still ignore your effort, cross your limits, or make you feel like you are never enough. If you are tired of carrying everyone else on your back while your own heart is breaking, this book is for you.This is a book about setting healthy boundaries in a simple, clear, and kind way. It shows you how to stop people pleasing without turning cold, bitter, or hard. You will learn that choosing yourself first is not selfish; it is the only way to build honest relationships and a calm inner life. Instead of clinging, chasing, or begging, you will learn gentle emotional detachment in relationships so you can love people without losing yourself.Inside these pages, you will discover how to let go of others who keep showing you through their actions that they will not meet you halfway. You will learn how to protect your peace in family, friendships, love, and work. Step by step, the book leads you into deeper self-love and self-respect, so you no longer fight to prove your worth to anyone who cannot or will not see it.If you are trying to rebuild your life after pain, this book will guide you through healing from toxic relationships and teach you how to release emotional baggage that has weighed you down for years. You will see that it is possible to walk away with confidence, even when your heart is shaking, and to create boundaries in love and friendship that keep you safe without closing your heart.The book reads like a gentle codependency recovery guide, written in plain, everyday language. If you live with constant worry and overthinking, you will find real anxiety in relationships help here. You will practice how to say no without guilt, even if you were raised to always say yes, always be nice, and always keep the peace at your own expense.If you carry deep hurt, the chapters on overcoming rejection and abandonment will speak to you. They offer emotional healing for women and men who feel forgotten, unseen, or used. If you come from a faith background and want God at the centre of your limits and choices, you will find that the idea of Christian self-help boundaries fits well with the message of loving others while still honouring who God made you to be.Many readers will also see themselves in the stories of healing from narcissistic abuse, where charm, control, and constant blame left them feeling empty and confused. The book helps you build self-worth and confidence from the inside, without waiting for any person's approval. You will learn simple tools to calm your mind and emotions when old triggers show up, so you do not fall back into the same painful patterns.At its heart, this is a guide to find inner peace and freedom by letting people be who they are and choosing what you will allow in your life. If you struggle with clingy or distant patterns in love, you will find gentle relationship attachment issues help that explains why you react the way you do and how to respond differently next time.You do not need a complex program to change. This book is a simple guide to self-growth you can read and start using right away. It is the kind of let go and move on book you keep close during hard seasons, when you know you cannot go back to the old way of living, but you still feel scared of what comes next. Every chapter points you toward real personal growth and mental wellness, not by fixing everyone around you, but by changing how you see yourself and what you allow. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.
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