Sober Secure : An Attachment-Based Guide to Dating, Sex, and Love in Recovery
Language: English
Published by North Atlantic Books,U.S. Aug 2026, 2026
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Neuware - An attachment-first path to lasting recovery: build the love, safety, and belonging that keep you sober—and help your relationships thrive Practical, body-based tools for dating, intimacy, and partnership in sobrietyRecovery isn’t just about staying sober—it’s about learning to love and be loved securely. Sober Secure reframes recovery through attachment, giving people in sobriety the practical tools to heal early relational wounds, regulate the nervous system, and create the connections that sustain a joyful, durable recovery.Nina Pick, MA, integrative somatic counselor and author of The Mind-Body Guide to the Twelve Steps, draws on attachment science, polyvagal theory, and somatic therapy while honoring the strengths of Twelve Step communities. She offers vivid examples in clear language and step-by-step practices for navigating intimacy, conflict, and repair on Twelve Step and other recovery paths.You’ll learn to:- Spot your attachment patterns and move toward earned secure attachment in recovery- Heal childhood and intergenerational attachment trauma- Regulate your nervous system with simple somatic tools that make connection feel safer- Trade isolating self-reliance for healthy interdependence without losing your agency- Date with pacing and clarity; cultivate pleasure and passion; and deepen partnership- Transform the chronic shame and 'not-enough' beliefs that fuel isolation and relapse riskWarm, accessible, and immediately useful, Sober Secure is a loving companion for building the safety, belonging, and embodied presence that let your sobriety—and your life—fully bloom.…
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- Title
- Sober Secure : An Attachment-Based Guide to Dating, Sex, and Love in Recovery
- Author
- Nina Pick
- Publisher
- North Atlantic Books,U.S. Aug 2026
- Publication year
- 2026
- Condition
- Neu
- Binding
- Taschenbuch
- Language
- English
- ISBN 13
- 9798889843740
- Item weight
- 367 grams
- Dimensions
- 229x152x34 mm
Practical, body-based tools for dating, intimacy, and partnership in sobriety
Recovery isn't just about staying sober—it's about learning to love and be loved securely. Sober Secure reframes recovery through attachment, giving people in sobriety practical tools to heal early relational wounds, regulate the nervous system, and create the connections that sustain a joyful, durable recovery.
Nina Pick, MA, integrative somatic counselor and author of The Mind-Body Guide to the Twelve Steps, draws on attachment science, polyvagal theory, and somatic therapy—while honoring the strengths of Twelve Step communities. She offers clear language, vivid examples, and step-by-step practices for real life: dating and consent, attuned touch and intimacy, conflict and repair, and long-term partnership—on both Twelve Step and non-Twelve Step paths.
You’ll learn to:
- Spot your attachment patterns in sobriety and move toward earned secure attachment.
- Regulate your nervous system with simple somatic tools that make connection feel safer.
- Trade isolating self-reliance for healthy interdependence without losing your agency.
- Date with pacing and clarity; navigate sex and consent with care; deepen partnership.
- Transform chronic shame and “not enough” beliefs that fuel isolation and relapse risk.
Warm, accessible, and immediately useful, Sober Secure is a loving companion for building the safety, belonging, and embodied presence that let your sobriety—and your life—fully bloom.
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About the Author
She received an MA in counseling psychology with a focus on marriage and family therapy from Pacifica Graduate Institute and an MA in comparative literature from UC Berkeley, and has certifications in a range of modalities, including Somatic Attachment Therapy, Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy, the Safe and Sound Protocol, the Havening Techniques, and Reiki. In private practice in Western Massachusetts, she also facilitates groups on somatics and recovery at Commonwealth Collaborative and is a fellow with the Yiddish Book Center’s Wexler Oral History Project.
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