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Condition: New
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Add to basket158 pages. Chinese language. 9.61x6.69x0.34 inches. In Stock.
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习惯性内疚是一种无谓的精神内耗,只有摆脱它,我们才能放下沉重的精神负担,好好爱自己、爱他人。有时内疚是积极的,它会促使我们弥补错误,成为有责任和担当的人。然而,过度的内疚感却会消耗我们,让我们陷入情绪泥潭,变得恐惧、不安和疲惫。比如:
·总是为过去的选择、错误或不完美而自责; ·感觉自己永远都做得还不够;
·当应该说不"时却说了"好"; ·任由别人用内疚感来操控自己;
·当自己既需要也想要时,不敢大声说出来,或者感觉自己不配;............
你总是觉得对不起别人,其实你对不起的人就是你自己。没有人是完美的,我们时时尽力,却经常无能为力。学会坦然接受自己的不完美和局限性,面对不如意,既学会内观也学会外看,相信自己拥有的一切都是值得的,才能让自己充满幸福感和正能量。
内容简介
一本帮助习惯性内疚者抵抗负能量的暖心指导书
哪怕再不想面对,也要勇敢地剥开内疚
看清内疚感从哪里来,才知如何安放它
在美国著名心理学教授大卫·霍金斯的能量层级图表上,内疚处于负能量的倒数第二层。在这个能量层级的人经常会感受到自责、懊悔,总是觉得对不起别人,甚至会陷入重度抑郁或者成为可怜的受虐狂。
生活教练瓦洛莉·伯顿在书中传授给了我们一套行之有效的教练方式--剥离流程,来帮助我们对内疚的事情进行剖析,找出内疚的深层次原因。
·P(pinpoint):确定"内疚触发点"。
问:是什么触发了我的内疚感?
·E(examine):审视你的想法。
问:关于这个内疚触发点,我正在对自己说些什么?
·E(exchange):把虚假的想法换成真实的想法。
问:针对这种情景的更准确的想法是什么?
·L(list):列出你的证据。
问:什么样的行动、价值观或证据会支撑关于这一情景的真实想法?
如果我们放任自己被内疚感掌控,就会对自己不满意,会在内疚的支配下做出不理智的决策,做出无意义的事情,终伤害我们的工作、生活、亲密关系,甚至会让我们的爱扭曲。通过这一过程,我们可以改变自己的内疚思维模式,从根本上摆脱内疚感,解放自我,重新掌控生活的方向。
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