ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX: BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON TRUE LOVE. A DIFFERENT WAY OF LOVING SO THAT LOVE LASTS FOREVER.

That relationships are for life, that being faithful means respecting your partner, that what God has joined together, let no man separate because marriage is sacred, and yet, ninety percent of marriages end in divorce, with anger and resentment. Why? Something isn't right. Are these teachings incorrect? Is a new way of loving awakening in the consciences and hearts of human beings?

The main problem in romantic relationships is that the vast majority are formed because we feel alone and incomplete, we feel we lack someone to love and fulfill us. We unconsciously or consciously search for love, we look for it outside ourselves, we expect it to come to us in someone else's body. We are unaware that true love is within us, that we produce it, and that we are its source. Because no one ever told us this to be the case. No one taught us that the most beautiful and important love is the one we create, and that this love must first fill us. We must fill, first and foremost, our own cup of self-love. Only when that cup is full of our own self-love can we honestly and truly love others and love our partner. If we fill our being and our lives with this love, we can create relationships of true and honest love.
True and honest love is unconditional love, the kind that is given without any conditions. The kind that says: I will love you no matter what you do. But can a woman or a man accept this from their partner? That their partner can do whatever they want and still continue to love them? Could a man or a woman in a relationship allow their partner certain freedoms and experiences? No, of course not, because the love we've been taught to express is manipulative, conditional—the kind of love that says: I'll love you as long as... you don't wear miniskirts, you don't look at any other woman or man, you don't go out for beers with your friends, you stop seeing your girlfriends, you only dance with me at parties.

We've been taught conditional love with one goal: to keep us asleep, without understanding the purpose of sexual energy and the objective of having a partner for life.

True, honest, unconditional love will allow us to develop relationships where love will last a lifetime, even if the relationship with our partner can't be sustained. Learning to express and live this kind of love is fundamental to truly being happy, to truly loving the one we love, allowing them to be themselves, letting them grow and develop, physically and spiritually. Why, if my relationship with my partner ended after fifteen or twenty years, should I hate them? Why do I have to completely erase them from my life? Why do I have to get rid of the beautiful love we shared for so many years, before the conflicts arose? Why not? I'd rather keep that beautiful love and acknowledge that it has made me a better person, a better husband or wife, a better father or mother, and that thanks to all those experiences, I am now ready to give this beautiful love that I Am to the next person with whom I choose to share the next leg of my life's journey. But now, in an honest and truly loving relationship.

This book is a journey of discovery about relationships, a path of understanding why we behave the way we do and how to cultivate honest and true love to be truly happy.