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In today's screen-saturated world, too many people are learning to objectify other humans before they have a fighting chance to understand how relationships work. This is even more true when those screens portray the unrealistic version of sexuality that pornography peddles. Longing for strong, equal life partnerships, many women are seeking practical advice on how to keep pornography's lies from invading their relationships. Pumpkins at Midnight: A Woman's Guide to Love, Dating, and Marriage in the Age of Porn gives women an empowering and panic-free approach to a topic that may otherwise feel overwhelming: talking about and confronting pornography as a team.

This research-based book teaches readers a revolutionary approach to addressing pornography. Rather than relying on magical thinking that a years-long porn habit will just disappear, readers learn the exact steps to have a structured, compassionate conversation about pornography. They also gain confidence in the power of emphasizing honesty and accountability over behavior management, which helps couples build mature and healthy relationships from the get-go. What's more, the authors teach five proven techniques to work as a team to overcome compulsive porn use.

Adam is a marriage and family therapist, public speaker, and co-owner of a network of outpatient mental health clinics. He has an obsession for learning new skills, completing items on checklists, and spreadsheets. Adam and his wife Lindsay split their time between sunny St. George, Utah and the little farming community of Mapleton, Utah, tending to their counseling offices and their five children (and three dogs).

Wendy works as a writer, editor, and therapist. She has a master's degree in English language from Brigham Young University and an upcoming degree in clinical mental health counseling from the University of Utah. She's passionate about faith, family, friends, and pebble ice. She lives in Mapleton, Utah with her husband Peter, six kids, three cats, a dog, five chickens, and a bunny.