I'm The Problem: The science behind why we self-sabotage
Language: English
Published by Akley & Benson Consulting, 2026
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- Title
- I'm The Problem: The science behind why we self-sabotage
- Author
- Akley, Jacob Elijaha
- Publisher
- Akley & Benson Consulting
- Publication year
- 2026
- Condition
- New
- Binding
- Soft cover
- Language
- English
- ISBN 13
- 9798234143020
Why do we keep repeating the same mistakes even when we know better?
Why do we sabotage healthy relationships, abandon our goals, procrastinate on the things that matter most, or settle for lives we know we were meant to outgrow?
The answer is not a lack of motivation, intelligence, or willpower. The answer is much closer than most people are willing to admit.
It starts with us.
In I'm the Problem, Jacob Akley takes readers on an honest journey into the hidden patterns that shape our thoughts, behaviors, and decisions. Drawing from neuroscience, psychology, behavioral science, and hard-earned life experience, he explains why our brains become wired for self defeating habits and, more importantly, how that wiring can be changed.
This book is not about blame. It is about ownership. When you understand why your mind does what it does, you gain the power to stop living on autopilot and start making choices that align with the life you truly want.
Inside, you will learn how childhood experiences shape adult behavior, why your brain resists change even when change is good for you, how limiting beliefs quietly control your decisions, and what practical steps you can take to build new patterns that last.
Whether you feel stuck in your career, relationships, finances, or personal growth, this book offers a practical framework for breaking destructive cycles and creating lasting change from the inside out.
The greatest obstacle standing between you and the life you want may not be your circumstances.
It may be the person staring back at you in the mirror.
The good news is that person also holds the power to change everything.
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