Book DescriptionParents often feel as if they are drowning in uncertainty and being driven by the constant needs of their children. "The Parent Lifesaver" offers parents of three- to twelve-year-olds a scripturally based and well-planned approach to parenting. Cartmell shows readers how a little strategic planning helps parents to be proactive rather than reactive, and assists them in developing a plan that is based on mutual respect, clear examples, and behavior management. Unique features of the book include:
- fifteen relationship building blocks
- key ingredients to being the best possible parent
- a "surefire" technique for rewarding positive behavior
- fifteen clear guidelines for discipline
- quizzes for rating your parenting skills
- seven common behavior problems with step-by-step solutions
Not only for parents, "The Parent Lifesaver" is also a valuable tool for teachers, day-care providers, and others charged with supervising children.
"Uses biblical principles and sound research to help parents solve everyday kid problems in a way that preserves both love and structure in the process. I highly recommend it." --Dr. John Townsend, coauthor of "Boundaries"
"A wonderful blending of clinical competence and user-friendliness. . . . A very practical approach that will help parents get on the right track." --Dr. Archibald D. Hart, professor of psychology, Fuller Theological Seminary
Todd Cartmell (Psy.D., Fuller Theological Seminary) is a licensed clinical psychologist and the father of two young children. He is currently part of a group private practice in Wheaton, Illinois, where he works exclusively with children and adolescents. Cartmell and his family live in Carol Stream, Illinois.
Contents
1 You Need a Plan: How to Get Started in the Right Direction
2 Build It to Last: Keys to Building Strong Relationships
3 They Noticed That? Understanding the Influence of Your Behavior
4 Let's Do This Instead: How to Teach Your Children What You Want Them to Do
5 Make Them Glad They Did It: How to Strengthen Positive Behavior
6 This Has Gotta Stop! Bringing Negative Behavior to a Halt
7 It's All in Your Head: Harnessing the Power of Your Thoughts
8 Let's Play Ball! Putting Your Plan to Work
Appendix A - Your Parenting Plan
Appendix B - Your Child's Development
Appendix C - A Few Assorted Tools