The Opposite of Settling: How to Get Everything You Want Out of Love and Life Without Losing Your Spark
Language: English
Published by Hay House LLC, 2025
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- Title
- The Opposite of Settling: How to Get Everything You Want Out of Love and Life Without Losing Your Spark
- Author
- Kenny, Case
- Publisher
- Hay House LLC
- Publication year
- 2025
- Condition
- Very Good
- Binding
- Hardcover
- Language
- English
- ISBN 10
- 1401995918
- ISBN 13
- 9781401995911
Forget settling or “settling down” - you deserve a love that upgrades every aspect of your life. A love that empowers you to get hotter, happier, and more fulfilled… together.
The host of the podcast New Mindset, Who Dis? helps you find a partnership that fills your life with “can you believe we did that?” moments, where “let’s book a flight and go” is as common as “I love you.”
Are you looking for a love that offers you clarity, not confusion? Does it feel like love has gotten too complicated? Does the sea of dating rules and expectations make you feel overwhelmed?
Case Kenny, host of the New Mindset, Who Dis? podcast and author of That’s Bold of You, brings you The Opposite of Settling – a blend of practical mindfulness, evidence-based research, and undiluted optimism – to help you find a love that expands your world. Case guides you toward finding and building a relationship that empowers you to be independent, vibrant, and in love. The book offers you the tools to:
· Navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and an unbothered mindset
· Find a connection that feels like home yet pushes you toward a fuller and more vibrant life
· Recognize and attract relationships that elevate your life instead of weighing or “settling” you down
· Let go of fear-based dating habits and find a love that enhances your sense of independence
The Opposite of Settling isn’t just about finding someone; it's about finding more of yourself in the process. Case’s concept of “settling up” (the opposite of “settling down”) offers an energizing affirmation of love, leaving you feeling lighter, unburdened of rules and expectations, and on the path to finding a relationship where you both look at each other and think, “Yup, that's my kind of weird.”
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About the Author
Case Kenny is a leading mindfulness expert, author, and podcast host who teaches a practical, science-backed approach to optimism and mindfulness―rooted in language.
His podcast New Mindset, Who Dis? has resonated with millions of listeners, and his viral writing on Instagram reaches hundreds of millions more. His work has been featured on The Today Show, Good Morning America, Forbes, NBC, ABC, and countless other media outlets.
Case’s academic degrees are in languages and linguistics (Mandarin Chinese and Arabic as well as Hindi, Urdu, Italian, and Latin). That background informs his core expertise: the intersection of linguistics, neuroscience, and optimism―how the brain responds to language and how self-talk shapes perception and emotion.
He regularly leads “Language of Optimism” keynotes across the United States, teaching clear, actionable frameworks for creating personal and professional optimism.
Case is also the best-selling author of That’s Bold of You and The Opposite of Settling.
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