How I Had To Learn To Forgive: The Weight You Carry, and How to Put It Down
Language: English
Published by Source Point Coaching, 2026
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- Title
- How I Had To Learn To Forgive: The Weight You Carry, and How to Put It Down
- Author
- Perry Jr., Jack
- Publisher
- Source Point Coaching
- Publication year
- 2026
- Condition
- New
- Binding
- Soft cover
- Language
- English
- ISBN 13
- 9798990690844
A bar stool in Louisiana almost ended my story.
I could have become another veteran statistic. Instead, I remembered something the Marine Corps put in me years earlier: if you haven't died or passed out, you can always keep on fighting.
I chose to fight. But first I had to put down the weight I'd been hauling for most of my life.
I began my career flying an AH-1S Cobra attack helicopter, trained to be precise, lethal, and emotionless. I ended it as a UH-60 Blackhawk MEDEVAC commander flying into firefights to carry out the broken and the bleeding. Somewhere between those two cockpits I learned the hardest lesson of my life.
The heaviest weapon I ever carried was not mounted on an aircraft.
It was the grudge I held against my father. He was an angry man who beat me as a boy, and I carried that into every relationship, every mission, and every quiet moment — until I sat at his bedside before he died and chose to forgive him.
That conversation set us both free.
WHAT'S INSIDE
• Why we hold on — and what unforgiveness costs your body, your work, and your future
- What forgiveness actually is, and the four things it is not
- The research: Stanford Forgiveness Project, Mayo Clinic, Desmond Tutu's Fourfold Path, Dr. Fred Luskin's method
- A guided four-step release process you work, not just read
- 24 chapters. 24 exercises. A Coach's Reflection in every part.
WHO IT'S FOR
Veterans still fighting a war nobody can see. First responders running on fumes. Executives carrying something they never talk about. Sons and daughters who inherited a wound they didn't deserve.
Anyone still hauling something they never agreed to pick up.
Written by an ICF PCC-certified executive coach who has spent nearly two decades helping leaders put the weight down.
Forgiveness is not weakness. It is the attribute of the strong.
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