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Erica Manfred was fifty-five when her husband announced he was leaving for a younger woman. Luckily, she had a girlfriend who had been through a recent divorce - a friend who coached her through the frustrating, frightening process of taking care of herself again. Divorced or separated women need advice not only from experts such as lawyers and therapists, but also from a sage, savvy girlfriend who's been there, done that. This book is that friend. Drawing both on her own experience and interviews with professionals and other divorced women, Manfred covers it all - from the emotional devastation to the legal and financial hurdles, from dealing with the adult kids to getting back into the workforce - and back into dating.

Erica Manfred has written for Cosmopolitan, New York Times Magazine, Ms., Parenting, Woman's Day, and Bottom Line/Personal, and is coauthor of The Doctor's Guide to Weight Loss Surgery. Previously a New York State caseworker who counseled families and children, she runs a women's divorce support group in her hometown of Woodstock, New York.