Recipient of 4 National Awards **Winner - Living Now 2010 Book Award ** Finalist - Book of the Year Award in Self-Help - Foreword Review Magazine ** Winner - 2011 Global E-book Award in Psychology/Mental Health ** Finalist - 2010 Indie Book Award in Self-Help 2010
The person you are hurting most by holding on to your resentment and anger is yourself. Unforgiven offenses eat at you, whether you know it or not, infusing your life with a bitterness that prevents you from finding peace. Essentially, refusing to forgive is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
Forgiveness is a process, not a set of words or a simple decision.
How to Forgive When You Can't will help you move past your anger, resentment and grudges to have peace of mind. Through clear-cut strategies and compassion-inspiring stories, Dr. Dincalci gives plenty of effective methods to release hurts and upsets for good - even those that seem unforgivable.
This book lays out how to get past the social taboos, emotional defenses and brain mechanisms that keep a person from forgiving. It provides a proven, powerful process that can help heal a lifetime of self-blame, resentment, regret, grudges and guilt. It addresses attaining self-forgiveness and dealing with heavy trauma, tragedy and abuse.
The author provides extensive references to research, case studies, brain studies, and how to maintain gains made.
This book can also be used as a guide to help assist others to forgive. Mental health, religious, legal and medical professionals will find it quite useful as a guide to help people cope with very difficult problems.
How to Forgive When You Can't will help you move past your anger and resentment. Through clear-cut strategies and compassion-inspiring stories, Dr. Dincalci teaches you the techniques that will enable you to work through your upsets and have peace of mind. He provides proven, powerful methods that will help you get rid of your hurts for good - even those that seem unforgivable.
This book lays out how a person can get past the social taboos, lies and brain mechanisms that keep a person from being willing to forgive. In it, he gives a effective sequence of ways that can help heal a lifetime of blame, resentment, grudges, regret, guilt, and self-blame. It deals not only with heavy trauma, tragedy and abuse, but also attaining self-forgiveness.
You will learn:
1- The Eight Essentials and Seven Secrets for dealing with upsets.
2- Which of the 27 powerful forgiveness techniques is best for you.
3- What all trauma survivors and their family members need to know.
4- How to calm the brain mechanisms that prevent forgiving.
5- How to get past the more than 13 blocks to forgiving.
6- The 11 overlooked aids in empowering yourself to forgive.
7- The three best strategies for managing difficult situations.
8- How to get out of the cycle of victimhood and guilt.
In 1993, Dr. Jim Dincalci had a deep personal forgiveness transformation which pulled him out of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, which he had for over 14 years. Since then, as a Child & Family Therapist, university instructor and founder of the Forgiveness Foundation, he has been developing methods to help people forgive and has taught these from coast to coast in the USA in universities, schools, hospitals, conferences, public seminars and churches. He frequently speaks on forgiveness. His book is being published in German, and coming out soon in French, Korean & Spanish.
