Choose Your Response: Six Practices to Uncover and Break the Hidden Patterns That Hold You Back
Language: English
Published by Mind-Full, 2026
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- Title
- Choose Your Response: Six Practices to Uncover and Break the Hidden Patterns That Hold You Back
- Author
- Rogers Ph.D., Michael J
- Publisher
- Mind-Full
- Publication year
- 2026
- Condition
- New
- Binding
- Soft cover
- Language
- English
- ISBN 13
- 9798996935505
You can’t control what happens to you. You can control what happens next.
Something happens. You react. And by the time you notice, the words are already out, the door is already shut, the story is already telling itself.
Most people spend years running the same painful loop without ever seeing it. Pain hits. We bottom out. We look for an escape and reach for a behavior that brings relief. The relief feels good, briefly. Then the consequences arrive and deliver us right back to the pain. Choose Your Response calls this cycle the Pain Wheel, a pattern first encountered in addiction recovery work but one that turns up everywhere: in marriages, in workplaces, in families, and in the private stories we rehearse about ourselves.
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
The pain of a hard life event is not a choice. But the suffering we construct on top of it, the story, the replay, the verdict, is built one reaction at a time. And between what happens to you and what you do next there is a gap. Everything you care about is decided there.
In this book, you will learn how to:
- See the six-station Pain Wheel that drives your reactions, and find where your own pattern lives on it
- Separate the pain you cannot avoid from the suffering you build on top of it
- Widen the gap between trigger and response with a practiced pause
- Take back the only two things you control: your actions and your attitudes
- Question the story your brain tells when it locks onto a problem
- Step down from the judge's bench and stop prosecuting old wrongs
- Choose who you are becoming, so drift does not choose for you
Drawing on decades of counseling experience, recovery wisdom, and research on stress, emotion, and habit, Choose Your Response pairs plain explanation with real stories and exercises you can start the same day. No willpower lectures. No pretending things do not hurt. Just a clear map of the pattern and six learnable practices for breaking it.
If you are tired of running the same loop, this is the way off the wheel. Get your copy today.
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