It's Not Me. Or Is It? : Breaking Free from Blame, Excuses, and Spiritual Finger-Pointing. This item is unavailable.It's Not Me. Or Is It? : Breaking Free from Blame, Excuses, and Spiritual Finger-Pointing

Blame is easy. Growth is harder. But freedom is worth it.

When life hurts, relationships strain, disappointment settles in, or conviction gets uncomfortable, it often feels easier to blame God, other people, our past, our circumstances, or even “the way we are” than to face the truth about ourselves.

Blame can feel protective. It gives our pain a target, our pride a shield, and our excuses a microphone. But over time, blame quietly keeps us stuck—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally.

In It’s Not Me… Or Is It?, The Shepherding Sheep offers a witty, honest, and deeply introspective guide to understanding why we blame, how it harms us, and what freedom looks like on the other side of accountability.

With biblical wisdom, relatable examples, guided prayers, reflection questions, and practical steps, this book helps readers:

Recognize destructive patterns of blame and excuse-making
Understand the difference between accountability and shame
Set healthy boundaries without becoming bitter
Heal from real wounds without letting pain become an identity
Apologize with maturity and receive correction with humility
Stop spiritual finger-pointing and start owning their growth with grace

This book is not about condemning yourself or pretending others have never hurt you. It is about learning to tell the truth: what happened, what belongs to you, what does not, and where God is inviting you to grow.

Because sometimes the prayer that changes everything is not, “Lord, fix them.”

Sometimes it is, “Lord, show me me.”