Adult Daughters of Borderline Mothers: From Codependency to Self-Compassion - Heal C-PTSD, Set Boundaries with a Difficult Mother, and Reparent Yourse (Paperback or Softback)
Language: English
Published by Discal Srl 4/1/2026, 2026
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Adult Daughters of Borderline Mothers: From Codependency to Self-Compassion - Heal C-PTSD, Set Boundaries with a Difficult Mother, and Reparent Yourse.
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- Title
- Adult Daughters of Borderline Mothers: From Codependency to Self-Compassion - Heal C-PTSD, Set Boundaries with a Difficult Mother, and Reparent Yourse (Paperback or Softback)
- Author
- Gilmore, Lane
- Publisher
- Discal Srl 4/1/2026
- Publication year
- 2026
- Condition
- New
- Book Type
- Book
- Binding
- Paperback or Softback
- Language
- English
- ISBN 10
- 180647638X
- ISBN 13
- 9781806476381
- Item weight
- 0.44 pounds
Do you still flinch when your phone rings and her name appears on the screen?
Does Any of This Sound Familiar?
- You walk on eggshells around your mother, adjusting your tone, your words, and your plans to avoid setting her off.
- You feel guilty for wanting space from her, as if needing distance makes you a terrible person.
- You replay her words in your head for days, wondering if she was right and you really are selfish, ungrateful, or too sensitive.
- You attract partners who feel eerily familiar, people who run hot and cold, who need you desperately one moment and reject you the next.
- You have spent your entire life taking care of everyone else and you have no idea who you are when you stop.
Inside this book you will uncover:
- The 4 distinct archetypes of borderline mothers and how each one shapes the child in a different way that most people never recognize
- Why your nervous system stayed on high alert long after you left home, and what happens in your body when old patterns get triggered
- The specific guilt mechanism your mother installed in childhood that still fires every time you try to protect yourself, and how to interrupt it
- How the idealization-devaluation cycle created an identity wound that shows up in every relationship you build without you realizing it
- The 3-tier boundary system that works with borderline mothers when standard advice fails, without requiring confrontation you are not ready for
- Why you attract partners who feel familiar instead of safe, and the attachment pattern driving that choice
- The difference between emotional flashbacks and regular memories, and why traditional coping strategies make flashbacks worse instead of better
- How parentification stole your childhood and turned you into a caretaker who forgot to take care of herself
- What "good enough" parenting actually looks like when you are terrified of repeating your mother's patterns with your own children
- How to rebuild trust in your own judgment after a lifetime of having your perceptions dismissed and your reality questioned
Ready to finally understand what happened and take your life back?
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