Divorce in Idaho: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect - Softcover

Craig B Marcus

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1943886695 ISBN 13: 9781943886692

Publisher: Addicus Books (US), 2018

Synopsis

Are You Considering a Divorce?

If so, you need all the accurate, objective information you can get to help you make the right decisions for your future. But gathering essential facts about property settlement, division of debt, child custody and support, and so many other pressing subjects can be a time-consuming and frustrating experience.

Attorney Craig B. Marcus understands your needs. During his years of practicing family law, he and his firm, Marcus, Christian, Hardee & Davies, LLP, one of Idaho’s oldest law firms, have helped thousands of individuals navigate the maze of divorce. In Divorce in Idaho, he answers not only the questions on your mind but also those you may not have thought to ask.

Using an easy, question-and-answer format, he offers clear, concise responses that will help build your confidence and give you the peace of mind you need to meet the challenges of this difficult time. You’ll find answers to questions such as:

• How long does it take to get a divorce in Idaho?
• How can I get a divorce if my spouse doesn’t want one?
• Who decides who gets the cars and the house?
• What determines who gets custody of the children?
• How are bills divided and paid during the divorce?
• How much will my divorce cost? Will my spouse have to pay some or all of my attorney fees?

About this title

About the Author

Craig B. Marcus is the founder of Marcus, Merrick & Montgomery law firm in Boise, Idaho. His practice works with families going through divorce. He resides in Boise, Idaho.

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Divorce in Idaho

The Legal Process, Your Rights and What to Expect

By Craig B. Marcus

Addicus Books, Inc.

Copyright © 2018 Craig B. Marcus
All rights reserved.

ISBN: 978-1-943886-69-2

Contents

Preface, 
Acknowledgments, 
Introduction, 
1 Understanding the Divorce Process, 
2 Coping with Stress during the Divorce Process, 
3 Working with an Attorney, 
4 Attorney's Fees and Costs, 
5 The Discovery Process, 
6 Mediation and Negotiation, 
7 Emergency: When You Fear Your Spouse, 
8 Child Custody, 
9 Child Support, 
10 Alimony and Spousal Maintenance, 
11 Division of Property, 
12 Benefits: Insurance, Retirement, and Pensions, 
13 Division of Debts, 
14 Taxes, 
15 Going to Court, 
16 The Appeal Process, 
In Closing, 
Appendix, 
Resources, 
Glossary, 
About the Author, 

CHAPTER 1

Understanding the Divorce Process

At a time when your life can feel like it's in utter chaos, sometimes the smallest bit of predictability can bring a sense of comfort. The outcome of many aspects of your divorce may be unknown, increasing your fear and anxiety. But there is one part of your divorce that does have some measure of predictability and that is the divorce process itself.

Most divorces proceed in a step-by-step manner. Despite the uniqueness of your divorce, you can generally count on one phase of your divorce following the next. Sometimes just realizing you are completing stages and moving forward with your divorce can reassure you that it won't go on forever.

Develop a basic understanding of the divorce process. This will lower your anxiety when your attorney starts talking about "depositions" or "going to trial," and you feel your heart start pounding in fear. Understanding why each step in the divorce process is needed can reduce your frustration about the length of the process. It will support you to begin preparing for what comes next.

Most importantly, understanding the divorce process will make your experience of the entire divorce easier. Who wouldn't prefer that?

1.1 Must I have an attorney to get a divorce in Idaho?

You are not required to have an attorney to obtain a divorce in Idaho. However, if your case involves children, alimony, significant property, or debts, you should avoid proceeding on your own.

If your divorce does not involve any of those issues and you would like to explore handling it yourself, you can contact Idaho Legal Aid, a nonprofit organization with offices in most cities, or the Idaho State Bar Association in Boise for a referral to attorneys who volunteer to provide assistance in some divorce cases. (See Resources at the end of this book.) You will want to see if there are documents or instructions available that you will need or that would be helpful in simple cases. A person who does not have an attorney in a court proceeding and handles the case by themself is referred to as being pro se (on one's own).

If you are considering proceeding without an attorney, at a minimum have an initial consultation with an attorney to discuss your rights and duties under the law. You may have certain rights or obligations you are unaware of. Meeting with an attorney can help you decide whether to proceed on your own. Also, there may be deadlines early in the process that may have an impact on the eventual outcome of your case and you do not want to unknowingly jeopardize your case by being unaware of them.

For help completing forms, if you decide to represent yourself without an attorney, visit the Idaho Legal Aid Service's website at www.idaholegalaid.org or visit the Idaho Supreme Court's website at www.courtselfhelp.idaho.gov.

1.2 What is my first step?

Find a law firm that handles divorces as a regular part of its law practice. The best recommendations come from people who have knowledge of a lawyer's experience and reputation.

Even if you are not ready to file for divorce, call to schedule an appointment right away to obtain information about protecting yourself and your children. Even if you are not planning to file for divorce, your spouse might be.

Ask what documents you should take to your initial consultation. Make a list of your questions to bring to your first meeting. Start making plans for how you will pay your attorney to begin work on your case.

1.3 What are the steps taken in a divorce action?

The divorce process in Idaho typically involves the following steps.

If you are initiating the divorce:

• Obtain a referral for a lawyer.

• Schedule an appointment with an attorney.

• Prepare questions and gather necessary documents for an initial consultation.

• Meet for an initial consultation with an attorney.

• Pay the attorney a retainer and sign a retainer agreement.

• Provide requested information and documents to your attorney.

• Take other actions as advised by your attorney, such as opening or closing financial accounts.

• Attorney prepares the summons and petition for divorce for your review and signature.

• Attorney files the summons and petition with the clerk of the court.

• Attorney serves the summons and petition on the respondent.

• If interim relief (such as temporary child support, spousal support, or attorney fees) is appropriate, attorney prepares motion papers for your review and signature, files with the court, obtains court date, and serves pleadings on respondent.

If you have been served with divorce papers:

• Obtain a referral for a lawyer.

• Schedule an appointment with an attorney.

• Prepare questions and gather necessary documents for an initial consultation.

• Meet for an initial consultation with an attorney.

• Pay the attorney a retainer and sign a retainer agreement.

• Provide requested information and documents to your attorney.

• Take other actions as advised by your attorney, such as opening or closing financial accounts.

• Attorney prepares a response to the summons and petition for your review and signature.

• Attorney files your response with the clerk of the court within twenty-one days of service of the petition and summons on you.

• If you are served with requests for interim relief, attorney prepares your response to these moving papers.

After an action has been commenced and the response filed:

• With the assistance of your attorney, you need to prepare financial disclosure documents (income and expense declaration and preliminary schedule of assets and debts).

• Negotiations begin regarding temporary custody and visitation, child and spousal support, payment of community obligations, and attorney fees.

• Attorney prepares moving papers for any requests for temporary relief not previously made.

• If there are minor children, the parties comply with any local rules or court orders to attend parent orientation and to participate in mandatory mediation.

• Court holds hearing(s) on requests for temporary relief.

• Either the parties reach an agreement or the court issues temporary orders.

• Temporary order is prepared by one attorney, approved as to form by the other attorney, and submitted to the judge for signature.

• Both sides conduct discovery — the process designed to obtain information regarding all relevant facts and commence the process to exchange valuations of all assets, including expert opinions if needed.

• You confer with your attorney to review facts, identify issues, assess strengths and weaknesses of the case, review strategy, and develop a settlement proposal.

• Spouses, with the support of their attorneys, attempt to reach agreement through written proposals, mediation, settlement conferences, or other forms of negotiation.

If you reach an agreement on all issues, then:

• One attorney prepares marital settlement agreement and necessary judgment paperwork.

• Both parties and their attorneys sign agreement and all necessary paperwork.

• Judgment paperwork is filed with the court.

• Either the parties waive the court date or the court holds a brief, final hearing.

• Judgment is entered and you will be divorced.

• Your attorney completes necessary orders and supervises the property transfer until all agreed terms are satisfied.

If you are unable to reach an agreement on all issues, then:

• Your attorney completes all necessary discovery to bring the case to its trial-ready point.

• Your attorney files an at-issue memorandum to obtain trial dates.

• If agreement has been reached on any issues, your attorney prepares a stipulation on those issues. All other issues are set for trial.

• You work with your attorney to prepare your case for trial.

• Your attorney prepares witnesses, trial exhibits, legal research on contested issues, pretrial motions, trial briefs, direct and cross-examination of witnesses, opening statements, witness subpoenas, and your closing argument.

• You meet with your attorney for final trial preparation.

• Trial is held.

• The judge issues a written decision.

• Both sides make any objections they have to the decision. If appropriate, the court sets the matter for hearing.

• The judge signs the final decision, dissolving your marriage.

• The attorneys supervise any property transfers until all agreed terms are satisfied.

Your posttrial rights are discussed in the chapter on appeals.

1.4 Is Idaho a "no-fault" state, or do I need grounds for a divorce?

Idaho, like most states, is a "no-fault" divorce state. This means that neither you nor your spouse is required to prove that the other is "at fault" in order to be granted a divorce. Factors such as infidelity, cruelty, or abandonment are not necessary to receive a divorce in Idaho. Rather, it is necessary to prove that there are "irreconcilable differences" between the spouses in order to have the marriage dissolved. Irreconcilable differences means you do not see a possibility of reconciliation between you and your spouse.

The court decides if there are substantial reasons for not continuing the marriage which make it appear that it should be dissolved. Other specific reasons for granting a divorce exist, however "irreconcilable differences" is the ground usually used.

The testimony of either you or your spouse is likely to be sufficient evidence for the court to rule that the marriage should be dissolved. This testimony will state that efforts at reconciliation were made, that those efforts were not successful, that further attempts would not be beneficial, and that there are irreconcilable differences between the spouses.

The judge may ask for information regarding the nature of the problems that led to the divorce or the type of reconciliation efforts made, such as counseling with a therapist or clergy member. Under proper circumstances, the court has authority to order parties to obtain counseling and parenting training and to issue other similar orders for the welfare of any children. If either spouse wants to pursue reconciliation, there is a process for pausing the divorce proceeding to give reconciliation a chance.

1.5 How will a judge view infidelity or my spouse's infidelity?

Because Idaho is a no-fault divorce state, there will rarely be testimony or evidence introduced about either spouse's infidelity. However, the judge will hear testimony regarding an extramarital affair if custody is an issue and your child was exposed to the affair.

1.6 Do I have to get divorced in the same state I married in?

No. Regardless of where you were married, you may seek a divorce in Idaho if the jurisdictional requirements of residency are met. The jurisdictional requirements are discussed in the following question.

1.7 How long must I have lived in Idaho to get a divorce in the state?

You must have been a resident of Idaho for six full continuous weeks immediately before you file the petition for divorce with the court to meet the residency requirement for a divorce in Idaho.

If you do not meet the residency requirement, other legal options are available for your protection. Talk to your attorney about your options.

1.8 My spouse has told me she will never "give" me a divorce. Can I get one in Idaho anyway?

Yes. Idaho does not require that your spouse agree to a divorce. If your spouse threatens to not "give" you a divorce, know that in Idaho this is likely to be an idle threat without any basis in the law.

Under Idaho law, to obtain a divorce you must be able to prove that a ground for divorce exists, such as "irreconcilable differences," which means that you do not see a possibility of reconciliation between you and your spouse. In short, it is not necessary to have your spouse agree to the divorce or to allege the specific difficulties that arose during the marriage to obtain a divorce in Idaho.

1.9 Can I divorce my spouse in Idaho if he or she lives in another state?

Provided you have met the residency requirements for living in Idaho, you can file for divorce here even if your spouse lives in another state.

Discuss with your attorney the facts that will need to be proven and the steps necessary to give your spouse proper notice to ensure that the court will have jurisdiction over your spouse. Your attorney can counsel you on whether it is possible to proceed with the divorce.

1.10 Can I get a divorce even when I don't know where my spouse is currently living?

Idaho law allows you to proceed with a divorce even if you do not know the current address of your spouse. First, take action to attempt to locate your spouse. Contact family members, friends, former coworkers, or anyone else who might know your spouse's whereabouts. Utilize resources on the Internet that are designed to help locate people.

Let your attorney know of the efforts you have made to attempt to find your spouse. Inform your lawyer of your spouse's last known address, as well as any work address or other address where this person may be found. Once your attorney attempts to give notice to your spouse without success, it is possible to ask the court to proceed with the divorce by giving notice through publication in a newspaper.

Although your divorce may be granted following service of notice by publication in a newspaper, you may not be able to get other court orders such as those for child support or alimony without giving personal notice to your spouse. Talk to your attorney about your options and rights if you don't know where your spouse is living.

1.11 I just moved to a different county within the state of Idaho. Do I have to file in the county where my spouse lives?

You may file your divorce petition in any county in Idaho, but your spouse may cause the venue to be changed to his or her county of residence if it is in Idaho.

1.12 I immigrated to Idaho. Will my immigration status stop me from getting a divorce?

If you meet the residency requirements for divorce in Idaho, you can get a divorce here notwithstanding your immigration status. Talk to your immigration lawyer about the likelihood of a divorce leading to immigration challenges.

If you are a victim of domestic violence, tell your lawyer. You may be eligible for a change in your immigration status under the federal Violence Against Women Act.

1.13 I want to get divorced in my Indian tribal court. What do I need to know?

Each tribal court has its own laws governing divorce. Requirements for residency; grounds for divorce; and the laws regarding property, alimony, and children can vary substantially from state law. Some tribes have very different laws governing the grounds for your divorce, removal of children from the home, and cohabitation.

Contact an attorney who is knowledgeable about the law in your tribal court for legal advice on pursuing a divorce in your tribal court or on the requirements for recording a divorce obtained in state court with the clerk of the tribal court.

1.14 Is there a waiting period for a divorce in Idaho?

Yes. Idaho has a mandatory twenty-one-day waiting period. This waiting period begins on the day after the day that the respondent, the person who did not initiate the divorce process, is determined to have been given legal notice of the divorce. This date is either the day that the respondent is personally delivered papers by the process server or the date that the respondent files with the court a "voluntary appearance" acknowledging that he or she knows the divorce has been filed with the court. However, if both parties agree and are present or represented by an attorney, the divorce may be granted the same day that the petition is filed.

1.15 What is a divorce petition?

A divorce complaint is now called a divorce petition in Idaho. It is a document signed by the person filing for divorce and filed with the clerk of the court to initiate the divorce process. It sets forth in very general terms what the petitioner (the person who initiates the divorce) is asking the court to order. A sample petition is contained in the Appendix.

1.16 My spouse said he or she filed for divorce last week, but my lawyer says there's nothing on file at the courthouse. What does it mean to "file for divorce"?

When lawyers use the term "filing" they are ordinarily referring to filing a legal document at the courthouse, such as delivering a petition for divorce to the clerk of the court. Sometimes a person who has hired a lawyer to begin a divorce action uses the phrase "I've filed for divorce," although no papers have yet been taken to the courthouse to start the legal process.

1.17 If we both want a divorce, does it matter who files?

No. In the eyes of the court, the petitioner (the party who files the petition initiating the divorce process) and the respondent (the other spouse) are not seen differently by virtue of which party filed. The court, as a neutral decision maker, will not give preference to either party. Both parties will be given adequate notice and each will have a chance to be heard and present argument.

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Edition details

• Publisher: Addicus Books (US)
• Publication date: 2018
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1943886695
• ISBN 13: 9781943886692
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 250