Research shows that children in separated families do best when both parents are actively involved in their lives. The aim of shared parenting is to have children in post-separation families spend substantially equal time with both parents. Shared parenting is widely regarded as the best parenting arrangement because it focuses on the benefits the child can gain through having such time. However, in many family situations, the implementation of this may seem daunting: equal time with both parents might be an unrealistic ideal, and communication between ex-partners may be difficult. So how can shared parenting really work? In this practical and concise book, two highly experienced practitioners provide parents with straightforward advice and consider a range of sample parenting plans. they help parents construct approaches that reflect the practicalities of their split family life - and always ensure that the child's needs are considered foremost.
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"Originally published in Australia (2006), this import seamlessly translates to American readers and is the ideal book for separated parents committed to coparenting. Psychologist Burrett and lawyer Green advocate for greater involvement by fathers and greater sharing by mothers, arguing that both genders are parents even if no longer partners. They warn against excessive scrutiny and help readers identify the fine line between communicating and intruding. In "Sorting Out Your Motives," they present pointed questions for reflection, reminding readers that kids should not be saddled with diplomacy and loyalties. Children's comments and those of separated parents are woven throughout. The Parenting Plans--some very detailed for those with contentious separations and some flexible for those able to share parenting with greater trust--are a big plus."
-Library Journal, Starred Review, August 2009
JILL BURRETT is a psychologist with more than 30 years of experience helping parents manage challenging family changes. She is the author of Parenting After Separation.
MICHAEL GREEN is a lawyer who runs a private mediation practice specializing in family conferencing, life skills programs, and dispute resolution. He is the author of Fathers After Divorce.
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Paperback. Condition: Good. 176 pages. cover worn, bumped, This important and timely book shows how shared parenting can work after separat ion and how both parents can maintain meaningful relationships with their childr en. The authors, Jill Burrett and Michael Green, bring to this work their expert ise in counselling and mediation, respectively. They provide sample parenting pl ans - both complex and simple - for various types of separated families. The pra ctical tools they offer work in every party's best interests - especially the ch ildren's. With legislation in many jurisdictions now enshrining shared parental responsibility and parenting time, the authors show separated parents how to mak e this work. They cite supporting research which indicates how important it is f or children to continue meaningful relationships after family breakdown. Myths a nd misconceptions are dealt with, together with practical advice on how parents can get past their hurt and anger and focus on approaches that will benefit thei r children. The authors also tackle the nuts and bolts of weekly routines and in clude useful suggestions on timetabling and communication between households. On ce a good shared parenting arrangement is in place, the emotional benefits revea l themselves: mums becoming more comfortable with sharing the children; dads lea rning to truly be with the children; and children being happier in shared care a rrangements, and so benefiting their parents. Seller Inventory # 5704z
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Seller: Book Express (NZ), Shannon, New Zealand
Paperback. Condition: Very Good. 176 pages. This important and timely book shows how shared parenting can work after separat ion and how both parents can maintain meaningful relationships with their childr en. The authors, Jill Burrett and Michael Green, bring to this work their expert ise in counselling and mediation, respectively. They provide sample parenting pl ans - both complex and simple - for various types of separated families. The pra ctical tools they offer work in every party's best interests - especially the ch ildren's. With legislation in many jurisdictions now enshrining shared parental responsibility and parenting time, the authors show separated parents how to mak e this work. They cite supporting research which indicates how important it is f or children to continue meaningful relationships after family breakdown. Myths a nd misconceptions are dealt with, together with practical advice on how parents can get past their hurt and anger and focus on approaches that will benefit thei r children. The authors also tackle the nuts and bolts of weekly routines and in clude useful suggestions on timetabling and communication between households. On ce a good shared parenting arrangement is in place, the emotional benefits revea l themselves: mums becoming more comfortable with sharing the children; dads lea rning to truly be with the children; and children being happier in shared care a rrangements, and so benefiting their parents. Seller Inventory # 3984t
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