We're Adopted, So What?: Teens Tell It Like It Is - Softcover

Swift, Gayle H; Swift, Casey A

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1733659714 ISBN 13: 9781733659710

Publisher: Gayle Swift, 2019

Synopsis

Being a teenager is tough enough. When you factor in the complexities and challenges of being adopted, it is exponentially harder. The graphic-style book, "We're Adopted. So What?" features five teen girls who share a huge thing in common: each of them was adopted. This shared experience draws them together yet the distinctions between their experiences are as unique as their personalities. Feisty, fun and outspoken, the girls tackle some tough topics. They share their thoughts and feelings being adopted, how adoption shapes their world and relationships, creates challenges, burdens them with curiosity, frustration, anger, and grief, and shows how they strive to blend together their biological and their adoptive worlds.

 Open adoption has become the norm for most contemporary domestic adoptions yet questions and complications remain for adoptees and their families. How can all these people cooperate to create healthy, supportive relationships that best support adoptees? How does a young adoptee balance their dual loyalties and connections? How do they weave the spectrum of their feelings, challenges, and experiences into a cohesive identity?

We now recognize that connection to and respect for an adopted child’s biological roots is integral to an adoptee’s ability to successfully unify their dual heritage. Still, the concept of openness remains shrouded in apprehension, confusion, and curiosity. How is it possible for a child to have two sets of parents involved in their lives? Against this backdrop of openness, how do teens in international or “traditional closed” adoptions, feel about and deal with their lack of connection with birth families?

This book overflows with practical suggestions for how to navigate the constantly changing seas that adoptees face. The influences of DNA are forever, just as the influence of the adoptive family’s nurturing will permanently shape the child worlds. The process is complicated and can be difficult to articulate. This book provides a way to spark these important conversations with families or friends. It validates and renders compassionate witness to the adoptee experience.

 

About this title

About the Authors

Award-winning author, Gayle H. Swift drew on her experience as an adoptive parent, adoption coach and foster parent to collaborate with her daughter to write We're Adopted. So What? She is a co-founder of GIFT Family Services and is dedicated to supporting adoptees and all of those who love and support them. "ABC, Adoption & Me: A Multicultural Picture Book" was the first book which Gayle and her daughter Casey wrote together. Gayle has also contributed a chapter to the anthology, "It's Not about You: Understanding Adoptee Search, Reunion & Open Adoption." Gayle is currently working on another book: "A Heart for Adoptees: What They Really Seek from Families and Faith." Gayle writes extensively on adoption issues, is an activist for adoptee rights and she curates a book review blog, "Writing to Connect" which reviews children's books through an adoption-attuned lens.

Growing up, Casey had a difficult time accepting her adoption and the unknowns associated with it. She wrote this book in the hopes that girls can relate to the emotions and questions she had at their age and to help them realize that others feel the same way. Casey is an elementary media and technology specialist and a Google for Education Trainer.

Edition details

• Publisher: Gayle Swift
• Publication date: 2019
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1733659714
• ISBN 13: 9781733659710
• Binding: Paperback
• Illustrator: Blauvelt Wesley J
• Number of pages: 60