All But Normal - Hardcover

Thornton, Shawn

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 1496413938 ISBN 13: 9781496413932

Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers, 2016

Synopsis

Growing up, Shawn Thornton’s life was anything but normal—but then, so was his mother.

After waking from a coma following a car crash, Beverly Thornton’s once sweet and gentle disposition had been replaced by violent mood swings, profanity-laced tirades, and uncontrollable fits of rage. Inside the Thornton house, floors and countertops were piled high with dirty laundry and garbage because Bev was unable to move well enough to clean. Dinners were a Russian roulette of half-cooked meat, spoiled milk, and foods well past their expiration dates. A moment of frustration might prompt her to hurl a knife at Shawn, his brother, Troy, or their dad or to vehemently cuss them out, only to shower them with love and affection moments later as though nothing had happened. And God help the family cat!

On several occasions, Bev even tried to jump out of the car on the highway while Shawn and his brother struggled to keep her inside. Yet this same woman was also a devoted Bible reader, Sunday school teacher, and friend to the elderly, poor, and marginalized wherever she went. How the same woman could be a saint one minute and a nightmare the next was a constant source of frustration for the family. Then one day, after decades of embarrassing outbursts, a surprise discovery finally helps the Thornton family come to grips with Bev’s mysterious condition and brings Shawn to a startling realization that changes the course of his life forever.

A heartwarming coming-of-age story, All But Normal is a powerful reminder that sometimes the “broken” people in our lives are the ones who need fixing the least.

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Review

Told against the background of his mother's mental illness, Shawn Thornton shares his coming-of-age story in All But Normal.--CBA Retailers and Resources

A pastor examines his childhood living with a disabled parent. The author's mother, Beverly "Bev" Mae Thornton, grew up in a modest family in Indiana. Warm, charismatic, and smart, she began, at age 16, to go out with John Thornton, a wealthier boy with a new Corvair. One night, they were in a terrible traffic accident, which would mark the rest of their lives with unanswered questions. Thornton, with co-author Kilpatrick, re-creates this time as if Thornton was actually there for his future mother's painstaking recovery. She was left with limited motor skills and had violent mood swings that left her "groveling painfully on the floor" before her sisters. Racked with guilt, John slowly pushed his way back into her life and toward a shared future that perhaps they never really wanted, Thornton writes. All this carefully lays the groundwork for the story of his own experiences with his mother, primarily during his middle school years. He had a loving home life, but his mother's disabilities also made it tumultuous, and he renders it all with the complexity it deserves. There are no easy answers to the difficulties surrounding disabilities, and Thornton and Kilpatrick reinforce that idea with each new story of embarrassment or, sometimes, terror. Well-balanced narration shows how the young Thornton slowly came to understand just how disheveled and odd their house was, particularly as his mother's rage and erratic behavior intensified, he says, to include flying plates and threats with scissors. These moments are matched with equal instances of support, tenderness, and humor that help make Thornton's home feel relatable; it also plays well into the narrative's overall goal as a Christian testimony of faith. Although the author says that living with his mother brought constant surprises, he also writes, "It never struck me as strange that the woman holding scissors over us...was also my greatest example of what it means to live and love like Jesus." A religious debut memoir that carefully brings an engaging, complex family to life.--Kirkus Reviews

A window into the masked realities of mental illness--a rare, untold perspective on the tempestuous nature of family life from behind closed doors--where a mother's psychological and physical debilitations wreaked havoc throughout the dysfunctional childhood home in which her son grew up. This memoir also looks at how he came to embrace the underrated value of brokenness--and what led him to the profound life lesson that, when it comes to family, normal is a relative term. A heartwarming coming-of-age story, All But Normal is a powerful reminder that sometimes the "broken" people in our lives are the ones who need fixing the least.--Chicago Book Review

About the Author

Joel Kilpatrick is the founder of the religion satire website LarkNews.com and has been profiled in Christianity Today and Time. He earned an MS in journalism from Columbia University Graduate School in 1995 and won the Christian industry s top humor award from the Gospel Music Association in 2005. He has authored and coauthored many books, including the satirical A Field Guide to Evangelicals and Their Habitat.

Born in 1982 in Brisbane, Australia, without any

medical explanation or warning, Nicholas Vujicic

came into the world with neither arms nor legs.

Imagine the shock his parents felt when they

saw their first-born brand new baby boy for the

first time, only to find he was what the world

would consider imperfect and abnormal. A

limbless son was not what nurse Dushka Vujicic,

and her husband Pastor Boris Vujicic had been

expecting. How would their son live a normal

happy life? What could he ever do or become

when living with such a massive disability? Little

did they or anyone else know that this beautiful

limbless baby would one day be someone

who would inspire and motivate people from all

walks of life. God uses Nick to touch lives and

bring the hope of Jesus Christ to people across

the globe.

Now at 27 years old, this limbless young man

has accomplished more than most people accomplish

in a lifetime. Nick recently moved to

California, USA, where he is the president of an

international non-profit organization, Life Without

Limbs, and also has his own motivational

speaking company, Attitude Is Altitude.

Joni Eareckson Tada is founder and CEO of Joni and Friends, an organization that accelerates Christian outreach in the disability community. Joni and Friends provides practical support and spiritual help to special needs families worldwide, and equips thousands of churches in developing disability ministry. Joni is the author of numerous best-selling books, including When God Weeps, Diamonds in the Dust, A Lifetime of Wisdom, and A Step Further, winner of the Gold Medallion Award. Joni and her husband, Ken, have been married for over 30 years. For more information on Joni and Friends, visit www.joniandfriends.org

Edition details

• Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers
• Publication date: 2016
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1496413938
• ISBN 13: 9781496413932
• Binding: Hardcover
• Number of pages: 320