Synopsis
This historic book may have numerous typos and missing text. Purchasers can download a free scanned copy of the original book (without typos) from the publisher. Not indexed. Not illustrated. 1914 Excerpt: ...Inconsiderate persons do not think till they speak; or they speak, and then think. 12 Some men excel in husbandry, some in gardening, some in mathematics. In conversation, learn, as near as you can, where the skill or excellence of any person lies; put him upon talking on that subject, 16 observe what he says, keep it in your memory, or commit it to writing. By this means you will glean the worth and knowledge of everybody you converse with, and, at an easy rate, acquire what may be of 20 use to you on many occasions. When you are in company with light, vain, impertinent persons, let the observing of their (5A) failings make you the more cautious both in your conversation with them and in your general be-24 haviour, that you may avoid their errors. If a man whose integrity you do not very well know, makes you great and extraordinary professions, do not give much credit to him. Probably 28 you will find that he aims at something besides kindness to you, and that when he has served his turn, or been disappointed, his regard for you will grow cool. 32 Beware also of him who flatters you, and commends you to your face, or to one who, he thinks, will tell you of it; most probably he has either deceived and abused you, or means to do so. Remember the fable 36 of the fox commending the singing of the crow who had something in her mouth which the fox wanted. Be careful that you do not commend yourselves. It is a sign that your reputatioti is small and sinking, 40 if your own tongue must praise you; and it is fulsome and unpleasing to others to hear such commendations. Speak well of the absent whenever you have a 44 suitable opportunity. Never speak ill of them, or of anybody, unless you are sure they deserve it, and unless it is necessary for their amendment, or fo...
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