I'm Just Saying: A Guide to Maintaining Civil Discourse in an Increasingly Divided World - Softcover

Kordestani, Milan

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0757324509 ISBN 13: 9780757324505

Publisher: Health Communications Inc, 2023

Synopsis

A straightforward look at the history and the art of maintaining courteous communication in an increasingly divided world.

2024 Winner, International Book Awards, Current Events Category and Social Change Category

2024 Finalist, International Book Awards, Business: General Category and Business: Motivational Category

Have you ever been in a conversation that, after volleying back and forth, ended with the words, “I’m just saying . . .”? Usually, this signals frustration, that the discussion has reached a dead end, that you haven’t made your point, and may even leave you feeling that your relationship with the other person has changed for the worse. Digital interactions, devoid of nuance and understanding, further complicate discussion. We may believe that we are superior because our opinions are the “right” ones, and in the future avoid conversations with those whose opinions differ from ours, sending us into a never-ending echo chamber.

In I’m Just Saying, author Milan Kordestani shows us that although challenging conversations can be unpleasant, they can also help us grow. Sometimes, people inspire us to change how we speak, making us better communicators in the process as we search to find common ground with those with whom we disagree. Kordestani uses contemporary case studies and personal experience to teach readers how to have constructive conversations by engaging in civil discourse—the idea that good-faith actors can reach consensus on any opinion-based disagreement. He discusses influential leaders and reflects on his successes and failures in creating The Doe, an online publication focused on civil discourse. He addresses the challenges that digital media consumption presents when seeking common ground—especially when people are only digitally connected.

Civil discourse, an essential part of democracy, is becoming rare in today's digital age. I’m Just Saying examines discourse's successes and the ways to rebuild it. Drawing from history, popular culture, and personal anecdotes, the book promotes effective civil discourse by providing practical advice and strategies for respect. Through story, I’m Just Saying offers insight and tools for politeness in a divided world.

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About the Author

Milan Kordestani is an author, social entrepreneur, and transhumanist thought leader dedicated to fostering effective communication, civic engagement, and pragmatic solutions to humanity’s greatest challenges. His first book, I’m Just Saying, was a #2 Wall Street Journal Bestseller and won the International Book Awards in the Current Events and Social Change categories. His writing has been published in Entrepreneur, The Huffington Post, and Rolling Stone. As an author and journalist, Kordestani combines personal insights with independent research to inspire progressive social change.

Edition details

• Publisher: Health Communications Inc
• Publication date: 2023
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0757324509
• ISBN 13: 9780757324505
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 272