Perfect Is Boring (And It Tastes Like Kale): Finding Belonging and Purpose Without Changing Who You Are - Hardcover

Johnston, Jess

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0593728246 ISBN 13: 9780593728246

Publisher: Convergent, 2025

Synopsis

What if we accepted our struggles and stopped trying to be someone we’re not? In this poignant, hilarious book, the bestselling co-author of I’ll Be There (But I’ll Be Wearing Sweatpants) shares her experiments in finding our way back to each other. Jess Johnston used to feel alone in her mess. In a random burst of courage, she started sharing about those insecurities and struggles out loud, and what she found shocked her. Again and again, people replied, “Me too! I thought I was the only one!” Over the last decade she’s reached hundreds of thousands of women with her message of authenticity and refreshing realness, and this is what she’s found: Women are really, really hard on themselves, and we should stop it. We often believe that if we just “did better”, “worked harder”, “were less messy/flawed/human”, our life would be infinitely better and everyone would like us more, therefore giving us the belonging we want. In her research, Jess has discovered that the exact opposite is true. It isn’t our lack of perfection that isolates us—it’s our authenticity about our imperfections that bring us together. In Perfect is Boring (and It Tastes Like Kale), Jess reminds readers that no one’s living a perfect life, and there’s a powerful interpersonal connection that happens when we’re real about it. With honesty, heart, and humor, Johnston takes on lies she’s believed and the lessons she’s learning (and relearning) about cultivating an authentic life, including: If I’m rejected, I will die. (We won’t.) I’m a junior varsity adult, and the best spot for me is usually the bench. (Nope, we’ve got to get in there and play). My job is to keep people happy and make sure they like me. (Excuse me while I go hide in my closet and have an anxiety attack.) Jess reminds us that the answers are in us already. They’re in wearing shoes that fit, in letting ourselves be ourselves, and in accepting that we’re a lot—a lotta mess, and a lotta great too.

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About the Author

Jess Johnston lives in Southern California with her husband and four kids, who are the loves of her life. She is an Enneagram Seven and is enthusiastic about everything--but especially people, travel, and sauces. Jess's writing makes you feel like you're sitting cross-legged on her couch in your cozy pants while sharing hearts and drinking coffee. She is the co-author of the Wall Street Journal bestseller I'll Be There (But I'll Be Wearing Sweatpants) and has been a top contributor to publications such as HuffPost, Scary Mommy, and Motherly.

Edition details

• Publisher: Convergent
• Publication date: 2025
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0593728246
• ISBN 13: 9780593728246
• Binding: Hardcover
• Number of pages: 192