Nurture the Nature: Understanding and Supporting Your Child's Unique Core Personality - Softcover

Gurian, Michael

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0470322527 ISBN 13: 9780470322529

Publisher: Jossey-Bass, 2009

Synopsis

From Michael Gurian, the best-selling author of The Minds of Boys and The Wonder of Girls , comes the next-step book that shows how any parent can tune into a child's unique core personality, hard wiring, temperament, and genetic predisposition in order to help that child flourish and thrive. Based on the most recent brain research, Nurture the Nature features the Ten Tips for Nurturing the Nature of Your Baby, self-tests, checklists, and many other tools for you to help your kids get exactly the kind of support they need, from infants to adolescents. While offering positive ideas for nurturing your child, Gurian also shows how to avoid the stress, pressures, and excessive competition of what he identifies as social trends parenting. Most parents know instinctively that their child is unique and has special potential, weaknesses, and strengths. No child is a blank slate. Gurian calls on parents to turn away from one-size-fits-all approaches and instead support the individual core nature of a child with effective and customized loving care.

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Paperback. Pub Date: 2009 Pages: 368 Publisher: John Wiley From Michael Gurian the best-selling author of The Minds of Boys and The Wonder of Girls comes the next-step book that shows how any parent can tune into a child's unique core personality. hard wiring. temperament. and genetic predisposition in order to help that child flourish and thrive.Based on the most recent ain research. Nurture the Nature features the Ten Tips for Nurturing the Nature of Your Baby. self-tests . checklists. and many other tools for you to help your kids get exactly the kind of support they need. from infants to adolescents.While offering positive ideas for nurturing your child. Gurian also shows how to avoid the stress. pressures. and excessive competition of what he identifies as social trends parenting. Most parents know instinctively that their child is unique and has special potential. weak...

Review

Noted author Gurian (The Wonder of Boys) here advocates that parents reject what he calls the "social trends parenting system"–i.e., following popular parenting fads–and instead focus on the unique talents, proclivities, and temperaments with which children are born. He spends a good deal of the book laying out the scientific aspects of personality and temperament, delving into recent brain research that, for instance, shows how gender and other factors play a role in personality development. While Gurian′s overall message is worthy, many parents may find some of his recommendations confusing and even alarming. He seems to advocate for specialized medical tests, such as brain scans and blood tests, in the absence of any real reason for performing them, treating them as tools to help parents better understand a child′s "core nature." His use of that term itself is problematic, as it sometimes refers to personality and other times to medical issues. His statements about certain areas of research and popular culture are also inaccurate, e.g., he misunderstands the Myers–Briggs Type Indicator, equating shyness with introversion. Still, parents may be able to take away the important and liberating idea that knowing your child is the best parenting advice of all. Fans of Gurian′s other books will be pleased; those who want to understand better how personality affects child development would be better served by Elizabeth Murphy′s The Developing Child. —Rachel Davis, Thomas Memorial Lib., Cape Elizabeth, ME ( Library Journal , May 1, 2007) Family therapist Gurian (The Wonder of Girls) approaches his nature–based theme from a slightly different angle in his latest work, urging parents to buck "social trends parenting" and make decisions based on the core personality of their individual child. A researcher of brain science and gender differences, Gurian believes that much of a child′s behavior is inborn from the start. But Gurian sees a disturbing trend in parents′ increasing willingness to disregard their own instincts, letting media and society–driven fads dictate the way they raise their kids. In his own "clinical detective work," he has found that children are becoming bogged down by activity overload and the "material anxiety" that arises from trying to keep up with the latest designer fads or electronic gadgets. Gurian presents an in–depth, chapter–by–chapter analysis of child development, beginning at infancy and ending in early adulthood. Gurian′s presentation is comprehensive and peppered with fascinating facts (i.e., how pheromones of biological fathers affect the onset of girls′ puberty or how parts of a toddler′s brain actually swell during a tantrum). The author′s new text will help parents begin, in the tradition of Maria Montessori, to "follow the child," rather than adapt their kids to a contemporary one–size–fits–all mold.(May) ( Publishers Weekly , April 2, 2007)

"Gurian′s presentation is comprehensive and peppered with fascinating facts (i.e., how pheromones of biological fathers affect the onset of girls′ puberty or how parts of a toddler′s brain actually swell during a tantrum). The author′s new text will help parents begin, in the tradition of Maria Montessori, to ′follow the child,′ rather than adapt their kids to a contemporary one–size–fits–all mold." ( Publishers Weekly , April 2, 2007)

Edition details

• Publisher: Jossey-Bass
• Publication date: 2009
• ISBN 10: 0470322527
• ISBN 13: 9780470322529
• Binding: Paperback
• Language: English
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 368