Breaking the Good Mom Myth: Every Modern Mom's Guide to Getting Past Perfection, Regaining Sanity, and Raising Great Kids - Softcover

Schafer, Alyson

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1443427675 ISBN 13: 9781443427678

Publisher: Collins, 2014

Synopsis

From leading parenting expert Alyson Schafer, Breaking the Good Mom Myth breaks down personal and cultural myths about motherhood while empowering mothers everywhere

As a psychotherapist and parenting expert, Alyson Schafer has worked with a great many mothers who, in the quest to be "good mothers," have ended up on the doorstep of despair. Alyson is a fresh-fifty suburbanite and working mother of two, and she can speak to these issues both personally and professionally. This book explains the psycho-social phenomena of how each person creates their own unique "good mother myth" and then examines why these myths are not only faulty, but could in fact lead to poor parenting, marital disaster and individual crisis.

Alyson Schafer offers up ideas for how the reader can reject her current "stinky thinking" and instead adopt a more useful outlook to improve her situation. The story arc allows readers to identify and then project how their parenting may be unknowingly going off the rails. The goal of this book is to provide parents with some basic education and a means of self-discovery. Readers uncover their own good mother myths and are given an eye-opening glimpse into potential issues to challenge their thinking. A great sense of empowerment is restored as mothers become better able to resist the pulls of their personal and cultural myths, and instead begin parenting with greater intention and in ways that are more suitable to proper child guidance.

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About the Author

Alyson Schäfer , BSc, MA Counseling OACCPP AAMFT Alyson Schafer is a psychotherapist and recognized as one of Canada′s foremost parenting experts. She is the host of The Parenting Show , a call–in advice show on Roger’s Television, and the regular guest parenting expert on CBC television’s The Gill Deacon Show . Alyson is also a Chapters’ Indigo Trusted Advisor and a popular corporate speaker for Lifespeak. Alyson is the selected speaker for Rainbow Canada′s 2007 speaker series. You can find Alyson′s advice in articles in Today′s Parent, Canadian Family, Chatelaine, Canadian Living and Readers Digest and through her website: www.alyson.ca. Alyson brings the age–old topic of parenting to a twenty–first century audience of educated, enlightened and motivated parents. Her style is fast and witty, and her information is grounded in theory and research. Alyson educates, inspires and entertains — whether speaking to an audience of parents, presenting workshops, or one–on– one in private parent coaching sessions. As a mother of two and a former nursery school teacher, Alyson brings real life experience and passion to her work.

From the Back Cover

Every Modern Mom′s Guide to Getting Past Perfection, Regaining Sanity, and Raising Great Kids. PSYCHOTHERAPIST AND PARENTING EXPERT ALYSON SCHAFER offers a brilliant and hilariously revealing exploration of today′s misguided mother–hood. Discover the Truth behind the myths that keep moms flying at a frenetic pace, spending countless dollars they often don′t have, and losing endless hours trying to become "experts" on everything from ear infections to the safe heating points of hard plastics. When did neurotic become normal? Within each new mother an ideal has been cultivated that–like the perfect house and husband–is doomed to fall short. Breaking the Good Mom Myth challenges our unchallenged thinking with warmth, humor, and real wisdom, Are you ready to let go of being a perfect "good mom," and get on with being a happy, effective, and self–fulfilled mom?

About this edition

• Publisher: Collins
• Publication date: 2014
• ISBN 10: 1443427675
• ISBN 13: 9781443427678
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 224