The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap - Softcover

Coontz, Stephanie

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0465098835 ISBN 13: 9780465098835

Publisher: Basic Books, 2016

Synopsis

Leave It to Beaver was not a documentary, a man's home has never been his castle, the'male breadwinner marriage' is the least traditional family in history, and rape and sexual assault were far higher in the 1970s than they are today. In The Way We Never Were , acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz provides a myth-shattering examination of two centuries of the American family, sweeping away misconceptions about the past that cloud current debates about domestic life. The 1950s do not present a workable model of how to conduct our personal lives today, Coontz argues, and neither does any other era from our cultural past. This revised edition includes a new introduction and epilogue, looking at what has and has not changed since the original publication in 1992, and exploring how the clash between growing gender equality and growing economic inequality is reshaping family life, marriage, and male-female relationships in our modern era. Now more relevant than ever, The Way We Never Were continues to be a potent corrective to dangerous nostalgia for an American tradition that never really existed.

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Review:

"[Coontz] approaches the subject of what we now insist up on calling 'family values' with what is, in the current atmosphere, a refreshing lack of partisan cant."--Jonathan Yardley, Washington Post Book World

"A wonderfully perceptive, myth-debunking report.... An important contribution to the current debate on family values."--Publishers Weekly

"Clear, incisive, and distinguished by Coontz's personal conviction and by its vast range of cogent examples, including capsule histories of women in the labor force and of black families. Fascinating, persuasive, politically relevant."--Kirkus Reviews

"Stephanie Coontz has her finger on the pulse of contemporary families like no one else in America."--Paula England, 2015-15 President, American Sociological Association

"[Coontz] persuasively dispels the myths and stereotypes of 'traditional' family values as the product of the postwar era."--Library Journal

"Historically rich, and loaded with anecdotal evidence, The Way We Never Were effectively demolishes the normal, traditional nuclear family as neither normal nor traditional, and not even nuclear."--Nation

"Coontz's strength is in the way she shows that families of every era have been blamed for conditions beyond their control."--San Francisco Chronicle

"Coontz presents fascinating facts and figures that explode the cherished myths about self-sufficient, happy, moral families."--Newsday

Book Description:

The definitive edition of the classic, myth-shattering history of the American family

About this edition

• Publisher: Basic Books
• Publication date: 2016
• ISBN 10: 0465098835
• ISBN 13: 9780465098835
• Binding: Paperback
• Edition number: 2
• Number of pages: 576