Review:
Suggests that the best parenting is the kind that does not forcibly mold a child into what he/she should be but lovingly allows him/her the freedom to follow his/her own special path. A fearlessly open and frank memoir. "Kirkus Reviews""
"My Son Wears Heels" is an unexpected page-turner, driven by the passion of a mother with no guideposts to understand and support a gender creative child. Julie Tarney poignantly lays bare her journey in frank tales about interactions with family, friends, schools, and, not least, the constant stretching of herself to be the best parent she can be. Every parent can learn from this uplifting story. Drew Tagliabue, executive director, PFLAG NYC
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Not only does the book chronicle an especially memorable mother-son relationship, it also suggests that the best parenting is the kind that does not forcibly mold a child into what he/she should be but lovingly allows him/her the freedom to follow his/her own special path. A fearlessly open and frank memoir. Kirkus Review"
A vivid, heartfelt, and ultimately joyful account of one mother's journey raising a son who did not do gender by the books. Julie Tarney shows us that there is no right so precious as our right to be different, and no greater gift we can give to our children than loving them for who they are. Harriet Lerner, author of The Dance of Anger"
This riveting account of parenting a gender-nonconforming child reminds us of how far we've come in the past twenty years, and also how far we have yet to go. Tarney shows us that, while there is no bubble of light that can protect our children from all injuries, a parent's unconditional love is the most effective armor of all. Jessica Herthel, coauthor of I Am Jazz"
My Son Wears Heels is an unexpected page-turner, driven by the passion of a mother with no guideposts to understand and support a gender creative child. Julie Tarney poignantly lays bare her journey in frank tales about interactions with family, friends, schools, and, not least, the constant stretching of herself to be the best parent she can be. Every parent can learn from this uplifting story. Drew Tagliabue, executive director, PFLAG NYC
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An insightful, exhilarating account of parenting a remarkably savvy and self-possessed girly-boy. Will Fellows, author of Farm Boys"
With candor, wit, and humor, Julie Tarney lays out the struggles and triumphs of raising a child who was very clear about who he was, even when everyone else questioned it. I found myself both teary-eyed and laughing, but mostly hopeful about the future. This powerful tale is not to be missed. Hector Torres, coauthor of Building a Better Man"
Tarney does an exceptional job of tracing the zigzagging line of Harry s self-identity and recalling the inevitable questions asked along the way. New York Times Book Review"
A memorable account of one young person s journey toward self-identity and a valuable parenting guide for a new era of gender awareness and acceptance. Foreword Reviews"
About the Author:
Julie Tarney is a board member for the It Gets Better Project, blogs for the Huffington Post's "Queer Voices" pages, and writes for TheParentsProject.com and the True Colors Fund. She volunteers for the PFLAG Safe Schools Program. A longtime resident of Milwaukee, she now lives in New York City.
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