Making Toast: A Family Story - Hardcover

Rosenblatt, Roger

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 006182593X ISBN 13: 9780061825934

Publisher: ECCO Press, 2010

Synopsis

The National Book Critics Circle Award-finalist author of Children of War describes how, after his adult daughter's sudden death, he and his wife moved in with their son-in-law and three grandchildren, quickly becoming reaccustomed to the world of small children and helping the family grieve and get on with life. 50,000 first printing.

About this title

Review:

'A painfully beautiful memoir' -- EL Doctorow. 'The story is about coping with grief, caring for children and creating an ad hoc family for as long as this particular configuration is required, but mostly it's a textbook on what constitutes perfect writing and how to be a class act' --Washington Post

'Rosenblatt brings the reader to tears, but with prose that is as restrained as it is evocative... sad, funny, brave and luminous' --LA Times

'Roger Rosenblatt means, I believe, to teach patience, love, a fondness for the quotidian, and a deftness for saving the lost moment - when faced with lacerating loss. These are brilliant lessons, fiercely-learned. But Rosenblatt comes to them and to us - suitably - with immense humility' --Richard Ford

From the Back Cover:

"How long are you staying, Boppo?"

"Forever."

When his daughter, Amy—a gifted doctor, mother, and wife—collapses and dies from an asymptomatic heart condition, Roger Rosenblatt and his wife, Ginny, leave their home on the South Shore of Long Island to move in with their son-in-law, Harris, and their three young grandchildren: six-year-old Jessica, four-year-old Sammy, and one-year-old James, known as Bubbies. Long past the years of diapers, homework, and recitals, Roger and Ginny—Boppo and Mimi to the kids—quickly reaccustom themselves to the world of small children: bedtime stories, talking toys, playdates, nonstop questions, and nonsequential thought. Though reeling from Amy's death they carry on, reconstructing a family, sustaining one another, and guiding three lively, alert, and tender-hearted children through the pains and confusions of grief. As he marvels at the strength of his son-in-law, a surgeon, and the tenacity and skill of his wife, a former kindergarten teacher, Roger attends each day to "the one household duty I have mastered"—preparing the morning toast perfectly to each child's liking.

With the wit, heart, precision, and depth of understanding that has characterized his work, Roger Rosenblatt peels back the layers on this most personal of losses to create both a tribute to his late daughter and a testament to familial love. The day Amy died, Harris told Ginny and Roger, "It's impossible." Roger's story tells how a family makes the possible of the impossible.

About this edition

• Publisher: ECCO Press
• Publication date: 2010
• ISBN 10: 006182593X
• ISBN 13: 9780061825934
• Binding: Hardcover
• Number of pages: 176