I Am Not a Slut: Slut-Shaming in the Age of the Internet - Softcover

Tanenbaum, Leora

Softcover

ISBN 10: 006228259X ISBN 13: 9780062282590

Publisher: Harper Perennial, 2015

Synopsis

The author of the groundbreaking work Slut! explores the phenomenon of slut-shaming in the age of sexting, tweeting, and "liking." She shows that the sexual double standard is more dangerous than ever before and offers wisdom and strategies for alleviating its destructive effects on young women's lives.

Young women are encouraged to express themselves sexually. Yet when they do, they are derided as "sluts." Caught in a double bind of mixed sexual messages, young women are confused. To fulfill the contradictory roles of being sexy but not slutty, they create an "experienced" identity on social media-even if they are not sexually active--while ironically referring to themselves and their friends as "sluts."

But this strategy can become a weapon used against young women in the hands of peers who circulate rumors and innuendo--elevating age-old slut-shaming to deadly levels, with suicide among bullied teenage girls becoming increasingly common. Now, Leora Tanenbaum revisits her influential work on sexual stereotyping to offer fresh insight into the digital and face-to-face worlds contemporary young women inhabit. She shares her new research, involving interviews with a wide range of teenage girls and young women from a variety of backgrounds as well as parents, educators, and academics. Tanenbaum analyzes the coping mechanisms young women currently use and points them in a new direction to eradicate slut-shaming for good.

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Review:

"Sure to be widely embraced by those interested in gender and sexual inequalities."--Library Journal

"Gives a generation of tweeting young women some thoughtful and well-researched advice about how to conduct their digital lives . . . Feminists young and old: this book is for you."--Bookish

"Timely [and] provocative."--Publishers Weekly

"I recommend this book to anyone who cares about girls and young women and wants to understand the heartbreaking challenges they face as they grow into their sexuality."--Aisha Tyler, Comedian, Actress, Author

"Absolutely crucial read . . .Tanenbaum's empathetic look at how today's expectations of performative identity can undermine real, healthy sexuality is heartbreaking. With any luck, it will also galvanize a much-needed shift, challenging each of us to consider how we participate in creating the world these girls navigate."--Andi Zeisler, cofounder and editorial director, Bitch Media

"What are girls to do when the same culture that encourages them to express their sexuality calls them sluts for doing just that? It's a big, important question, and Tanenbaum is up to the task of exploring it."--Book Riot

"A significant, spirited analysis sure to be embraced by feminists and deserving of wide attention."--Kirkus Reviews

"This thoroughly researched, galvanizing book will serve as a crucial tool for young women and their families. Tanenbaum navigates the perilous waters young women are swimming . . . and offers them a guide to make it safely to shore."--Rebecca Traister, author of Big Girls Don't Cry

"Profoundly eye-opening book about the dangerous world young women are forced to negotiate and the blind-eye all too often turned toward it by their peers, adults, and even the media. It should be required reading."--Elissa Schappell, author of Blueprints for Building Better Girls

"I Am Not a Slut offers both a wake-up call about the dangerous impact of the word 'slut' and a path forward to talk about sex and sexuality in an open, positive, and nonjudgmental way."--Cecile Richards, President, Planned Parenthood Federation of America

From the Back Cover:

Young women today are encouraged to express themselves sexually. Yet when they do, they are derided as "sluts." Caught in a double bind of mixed sexual messages, they're confused. To fulfill the contradictory roles of being sexy but not slutty, they create an "experienced" identity on social media--even if they are not sexually active--while ironically referring to themselves and their friends as "sluts."

But this strategy can become a weapon used against young women in the hands of peers who circulate rumors and innuendo--elevating age-old slut-shaming to deadly levels, with suicide among bullied teenage girls becoming increasingly common. Now, Leora Tanenbaum--senior writer and editor for the Planned Parenthood Federation of America, author of the groundbreaking work Slut!, and the writer who coined the term slut-bashing--revisits her influential work on sexual stereotyping to offer fresh insight into the digital and face-to-face worlds contemporary young women inhabit. She shares her new research, involving the experiences of a wide range of teenage girls and young women from a variety of backgrounds as well as parents, educators, and academics. Tanenbaum analyzes the coping mechanisms young women currently use and points them in a new direction to eradicate slut-shaming for good.

About this edition

• Publisher: Harper Perennial
• Publication date: 2015
• ISBN 10: 006228259X
• ISBN 13: 9780062282590
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 416